Basic stats and roles of the craft are fairly similar. In multiplayer, tech levels needed make a large difference, and in general, the abilities make a fairly large difference too.
As an example, IF I use Vasari light frigates, I will ALWAYS get their repair ability, since it can turn the tide of a battle. Vasari light frigates are ships to be preserved early game. Advent light frigates are things you throw away more easily. Their power is nice, but not devastating on it's own, and their role for me is more often than not filler if my crystal is short and little more. Same basic role, but they get used (at least by me) in completely different ways.