Thoumsin - I doubt your dual Xeon setup can match a 6 core i7 extreme. Seriously.
Performance is not all about the processor itself but related to the general motherboard block diagram...
By example, on a i7, link between processor and SouthBridge is called DMI ( direct media interface ) with a max speed of 10 Gb/sec... On Xeon, it is called ESI ( Enterprise SouthBridge interface ) with a max speed of 20/Gb/sec... in my case, i have two ESI line...
Other example, i7 extreme edition have a single 6.4 GT/S QPI... modern Xeon use a full four-quadrant interface to achieve 25.6 GB/s... my older Xeon can use 8 serial line when 8 bank are populated and reach a max speed 32 GB/s using full buffered DDR2...
Bios from server board are somehow more complex that these of desktop board... my best benchmark is not reach by using windows because a lot of my best bios option is tagged "not with windows"... these option will work with Linux, Unix, MAC OS x, Solaris, etc... a example is the "Discrete MTTR Allocation" who achieve better and faster graphic effect with a computer having more that 4GB RAM...
Of course, i am pretty sure that a today Xeon will win without any problem when compare to my 4 year old Xeon... Point is Xeon general architecture have more performance that desktop processor... recent i7 extreme slowly reach the level of my system... but if i upgrade, i will remain with Xeon... i7 extreme are overprized when related to their performance... it is not without reason that professional remain with Xeon ( or Opteron )... in some way, it is like compare a top consumer car and a Formule One car...
And performance have a tag price too... have use a 15000$ MAC PRO configuration for model... using other brand like supermicro have allow to reach a good price tag of 5000$ but these remain a high price when compare to desktop... without speaking of my power use who is around the 1.3 kw/h !
Well, i am happy with my actual system... before, with Desktop computer, for keep performance related to the latest game, i was obligate to buy a new computer each year... it have turn that my workstation allow me to remain a more long time running new top game without the feel the need to upgrade...
Point is that general performance is not only related to the processor only... motherboard layout is very important too... that Desktop processor will always be limited when related to Server processor... like Desktop windows OS is a limited version of the server one...
In the future, Intel wish make processor who are all identical, where feature are unlocked by buying a license for the feature... hope that it will happen... somebody will be able to start with a low performance low price processor, and slowly enable more core, more cache, more feature by buying license...