I wanted to follow up on my post. This happened again and I make sure that I had the right map selected. The only thing that I can think of is that maybe my buddy put the check mark that he was ready to play and I changed maps while he was ready.
Ok, I think that I a dump. I think that I am confused with the picture of the map and what map it is when you run it. I was opening the right map that I selected but I did not think that was the map. I still think the reason is this that the map that is selected is not always what is being displayed.