I got it working it was simple as restarting my computer. It appears even though I shut off my firewall yesterday night my computer it was still some how blocking access to the server. The next day (today) I started up my pc and went to Stardock and was able to log in. My firewall prompted me asking permission to allow Stardock to access the server which I allowed and I logged in.
Then I had problems updating DA I put in my serial number from the back of the cd jewel case and it said it was the wrong one. I asked for my serial number to be e-mailed to me. I put in that serial number and it was invalid too. Finally I specifically scrolled down to the DA folder and asked for the serial number it was e-mailed to me and it was a different number. I used it and it was invalid. I minimized Stardock central to search online and when I got back to stardock central I find it downloading the update... rofl!
WTH this is a great game but why make it so damn complicated with updating. Man it should be as easy as going to the webiste and dowloading the update but they have to fudge things up with this stardock crappola. Luckily I got it working but I know others out there are still having problems with it. Now it looks like Stardock it self needs an update