Why is it that some people don't see themselves

I know that we all tend to think of ourselves as being better than we really are.  We never see our own flaws, or rarely seem them I guess, but we're plenty quick to see flaws in others and stand around pointing at them and fanning flames in their direction when given opportunities to do so.

What am I talking about here?  Well, at another site I frequent there's one individual, much like the inferior officer here (the Clueless Old Liberal that frequently haunts and trolls here at JoeUser.com) that is recognized by most as a persistent 'thread crapper' or at least as someone that likes to dump crap on various things (such as movies that he thinks sucked while others offer praise for them, or TV shows that he thinks stink, etc...)

Now, I say recognized by most because I've gotten private messages discussing such activities in the past and somewhat cheering me on for calling this individual out on their habit of crapping on things as if they were possessed by Triumph the Insult Comic Dog.

Lately this in-duh-vidual has been crapping on and on about why there isn't a winner in the HD DVD vs. Blu-ray format war.  While he says he doesn't care who wins, he also goes on to complain about why HD DVD won't just go away, how can it be surviving based on sales chart data that is old and under-informed, and in other ways does his level best to spread more FUD (fear, uncertainty and doubt) about the long term viability of HD DVD as a format, even though the same individual knows that many of the bargain hunters that frequent this other site recently purchased HD DVD drives for themselves or as gifts for others, and even though there've been literally hundreds of messages about bargain movies to be bought or that were just bought on the HD DVD format.

This same individual went well out of his way to dance on the grave (well before there was really a grave dug) of a TV show that many people liked, but which sadly didn't get enough support in the ratings to survive beyond it's first year (though I note that the show that replaced the one that was killed off did even worse in the ratings than did the show that is gone).

And as noted, this same individual has been less than kind in trashing movies that some people (like me) thought were hilarious while basically saying that people that didn't find movies that he liked as entertaining and funny must be in some way defective for missing the humor.

So, why is it that said individual can't see in their own writings on the net that they are an antagonistic troll that likes to fling pooh just for the sake of flinging pooh?  Why is it that said individual calls me out for apparently being filled with hate because I toss a few sarcastic rolling eyes smileys in their direction?

Like the CEO of Stardock has said in the past, I love a good fight and debating on the internet is great sport for me.  I'm more than happy to engage in a battle of wits with someone, though I have to question whether or not it's worth it with some folks (like the inferior officer here, or like the crapper at the other site I like to frequent).  After all, debating is one thing, but continuing to argue over things well after the rest of the world has seen the results of the fight pre-determined is something entirely different.

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As I always like to say, let it go, move on. You'll find that your days get happier and brighter by doing so. The clueless old liberal you talk about will never change, but you will by not letting go. Think about.  ;) 
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but you will by not letting go.

What he said.

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I know that we all tend to think of ourselves as being better than we really are.
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The older I get the better I thought I was ....;)

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I know that we all tend to think of ourselves as being better than we really are. 
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As I am perfect already, I don't see how this could possibly be  ;) 

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{I know that we all tend to think of ourselves as being better than we really are.  We never see our own flaws, or rarely seem them I guess, but we're plenty quick to see flaws in others and stand around pointing at them and fanning flames in their direction when given opportunities to do so.}

I think it's human nature to not recognize our own flaws,  it's great when and if we can and then laff at ourselves.

The troll seems to have left you quite exasperated,  just give a little flutter of your hands and be rid of it,  you'll thank yourself for it! 

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flaws? I ain't got no stinkin' flaws! except maybe excessive humbleness.

My wife points out I have one or two but I wasn't listening at the time.
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Flaws - I have two of them. I have two ceilings too...
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Oh, we live in a 2 story Fuzzy?  :LOL: 
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Why is it that some people don't see themselves
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Haven't these people heard of mirrors? ;p
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Mirrors are no good if you are a vampire ;)
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As always recently, I'm probably out of step on this.

I think if you have an issue that you genuinely care about enough to argue/debate, then you probably care more about learning from new information that supports, or indeed challenges any starting position, than you do about being seen to be right.

I tend to see debates as more of a journey than about trying to stand firm on shaky ground. As long as you can stand it when the road takes an unexpected turn or hits a bump.

Some folks just like to spark something off and see how many will run to put out the fire. I guess no-one posts that doesn't feel like there's something in it for them.



Po' loves Skinhit

Ya see, mindless graffiti everywhere ;p
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terpfan1980...theres always a "KnowItAll" or wannabe "KnowItAll" somewhere or someone that always has something negative to say about someone or some thing...I generally ignore people like that. Legends in 'their own' minds! Life is to short to give in to people like that. ;)
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If you think only forum users are like that, read this article by Mr. Dork, oops, Dvorak about tech in 2007.

WWW Link

I wonder what is this guys contribution to the tech.
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I love a good fight
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So do I. :)
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I know that we all tend to think of ourselves as being better than we really are.
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Me... I tend to think of myself as being worser than I really are... sorta inspires me to be on my best/better behaviour, then people should have no need to paint my picture blacker than is necessary. :p
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I've given this a bit more thought, and I come to the conclusion that because it is so much easier to look the other way and find fault in everyone else, many fail/refuse to look at themselves as being less than perfect. However, the most annoying with this trait are those who are highly predatory in belittling others while setting themselves up to be holier than thou...God too.

Met someone like that earlier today and thought they're gonna be stuck in limbo when they pass on... Heaven surely wouldn't have 'em, and Hell 'd be afraid they'd go down and take over, such is the evil in the attitude. ;)