"friday five" ... choose YOUR fate

... the lesser of two evils ...

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this week, we do "the lesser of two evils". put yourself in the five situations below. none of them have a completely desirable outcome, as all of them involve personal compromise. as always, these are extremes, and in choosing one you forfeit the other.



so, would you rather be ...



1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?


2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?


3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?


4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?


5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?



everyone is welcome, and remember to include your reasons if you can. mig XX
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Quick question first - by choosing one, do you get the opposite of the other? eg - if I choose to be really unintelligent will I be beautifully attractive?
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?
Easy... you dont need to be good looking to talk the pants of a fine filly! The ones that you do need to be good looking for, dont deserve it anyway!!!

2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?
Totally blind. Vison is probably the only sense that isn't accentuated with the loss of another... I also couln't live without music

3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?
Miserably lonely really, really sucks, So I guess being unhappily in love is a fair compromise in this situation.

4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?
Wildly controversial, every time

5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?
World famous people dont really live through the ages... critical acclamation is something that lives on through time, fame doesn't last forever, acts do.

I look forward to hearing the responses... this was a fnatastic friday 5 Miggy!!! you haven't been around much! I guess you and Marco are having fun huh!!!

BAM!!!
Elemental: Reforged
Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Floozie - Hey, this is Marco substituting. Mig's getting ready to go out, but she will get back to you. I think that you have to place yourself as your are in the five given situations. So, you would have to take one of the evils, gain nothing for it, but not have to suffer the other evil.

marco
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Suz you're such a geek...

1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?
Intelligent without a doubt. I consider myself to be pretty average on both counts at the moment, but if I was to choose which I'd rather have, definatly intelligence, my beauty would fade, and would be merely superfical. Where as intelligence will never leave me, and will take me much further than beauty would, or at least alot further in the places I wanted to go.


2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?
Deaf. The voices in my head would keep me company, but to never see the beauty of the world would suck.

3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?
Miserabley lonely. Reasons, erm...to be in love has to be perfection, and anything less for me just won't do.


4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?
Controversial. Whatever I do, I will follow my heart. So I won't follow anyone else unless I totally agree with it!


5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?

Critically acclaimed. Fame would send me crazy! Completely round the bend. I'd much rather be recognised for achieving something, than who I go drinking with, or something stupid.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanks Marco. Guess I was hoping for more than I can get! (Gee - that doesn't sound like me at all!)

1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ? Extremely unattractive. I like being intelligent and I hope that's what will get me through life over my appearance.

2/ totally blind or completely deaf ? Definitely totally blind. Music is such a huge part of my life and I enjoy gigs even when I can't see the stage due to the atmosphere.

3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ? Unhappily in love as I don't deal with loneliness very well.

4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ? I'd like to say contraversial, but it appears that I toe the line more than I'd like to admit, so I'll go for my nature rather than how I'd like to see myself.

5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ? Critically acclaimed. Fame doesn't interest me. I'd like to do something of worth rather than popular interest.

Brilliant questions. And I didn't take a whole page to answer them this time! Have a good night out migs.

Suz xxx
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Intelligent without a doubt


Sorry! stupid me read the question wrong...I meant unattractive!
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
okay...

1) I guess i'd be unattractive, since it's only a few more steps down anyway And if I was any dumber, there are certain um "higher pleasures" in life i couldn't enjoy like culture etc.

2)Totally blind. Though beethoven was deaf and he still made music...I dunno. i have crappy eyeside anyway, and I love music too much not to hear it.

3)Unhappily in love. My present situation- and no wouldn't change it. Loneliness sucks.

4)Depends on your definition of controversy..I think I'd rather just think and do what I want, some people'll accept it and some won't.

5) Critically acclaimed. I wouldn't wanna be famous unless i deserved it. Still, critics can get it wrong too.

Thanks Vanessa..Have a good day.

Dyl xx
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?
I would be exremely unattractive. If it became a huge issue, I could always get plastic surgery, but I'm not sure they have cranial implants yet...


2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?
Completely deaf. I can't even imagine how hard it would be just trying to get around in every day life without sight.


3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?
OH MY GOSH!! This is a hard one, but I'd have to go with being unhappily in love. I at least need someone to crack jokes at.


4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?
I would be wildly controversial, but not really on purpose. I would hate to change my opinions JUST to fit in. I change my opinions all the time, but only because I'm presented with information I didn't have, or didn't understand before... not because I want to agree with the mainstream.


5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?
Critically acclaimed for sure. Everyone wants to be the best at whatever they do...

6/ Keep working for the rest of my life or win the lotto tomorrow ?
What time can I pick up my check please?
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?

Unattractive


2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?

Blind


3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?

Been both, hated both.....refuse to choose one.....


4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?

Wildly controversial would be MUCH more fun!!


5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?

Critically acclaimed
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
I could always get plastic surgery, but I'm not sure they have cranial implants yet...


Love it! Best answer yet!
Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ I will also go with unattractive. Can't be that much worse than I already am, and I'm not about to give up my brain.
2/ deaf. While I enjoy hearing things, I am too visually oriented to give that up. And I can always sing to myself in my head.
3/ Yeah, that's a tough choice. I'll go with in love because at least then I'll be getting some.
4/ Controversial. Just for a change of pace.
5/ World famous. Why be appreciated by a few when you can be loved by many?
Reply #12 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?
Unattractive

2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?
Blind, what would the world be without music?

3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?
Miserably loney, because every one knows your not really miserable! I've felt loney when I was single at times, but then I look at all of my friends and I move on and enjoy my life!

4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?
controversial, I HATE how acceptable I am sometimes! It gets boring! Okay, so I'm a little rebellious!? What's it to ya!

5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?
critically acclaimed- I had to think about this one for a minute. I like intimacy, I think that's why I chose this.
Reply #13 from JoeUser Forums Top

1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?


Unattractive.  I'd rather be ugly than stupid.


2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?


Deaf...at least then I could sign and watch movies.


3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?
Ooooh....miserably lonely.  There's always the possibility of happily in live after that, huh?

4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?


Contraversial.  Acceptable is boring and normal.


5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?


Critically acclaimed.  Famous...no thanks. 



Reply #14 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?
That's easy. I'm already extremely unattractive, so I'll stick with that.

2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?
Deaf. I value my sight far too much.

3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?
unhappily in love, I guess. I'm not sure I would really be capable of either, though.

4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?
Utterly acceptable.

5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?
Critically acclaimed. Though I don't put much stock in fame or critics.
Reply #15 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ? Extremely unattractive. I don't really give a shit if somebody finds me attractive or not. I'd be more bothered if I couldn't understand the stuff that I am interested in right now, or strive to learn.


2/ totally blind or completely deaf ? Difficult! I'd have to say completely deaf, only because I enjoy reading and writing so much. Life without sound though.... doesn't sound like a life that I would enjoy.


3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ? Miserably lonely, but the question to consider is this, why am I so miserable to be on my own? I couldn't put up with a relationship that was making me unhappy, that's for sure.


4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ? Utterly acceptable, if only to say that I'm guessing that being wildly controversial takes a lot of hard work at maintaining the image. If I was utterly acceptable, it must be a more natural thing.


5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ? Not to grub, but I wonder if being world famous has more going for it that the critically aclaimed. What am I world famous for? If it was for writing something that I enjoyed, but less academics appreciated it, then who gives a shit? I wouldn't want to be famous for doing something stupid, however!


Nice one, Mig! I must admit that I really enjoy the 'friday fives'.
Reply #16 from JoeUser Forums Top

Vanessa where have you been?  You've been scarce lately, like me.   It's good to see that you're still posting friday fives though I look forward to them .  Anyways here's the answers from my perspective.


1. Extremely unattractive.  A fear of mine is to lose intellect and not question the things I question today.  I couldn't imagine not understanding the things that interest me so much now.


2. Completely deaf.  Although I would be losing such great things as music and the ability to hear anyone say something to me anytime, I could never lose my vision though because in silence I can still enjoy beauty.


3.Miserably lonely.  I would rather be single and have time to do anything I want than to be in a relationship where I would also be unhappy and I couldn't do whatever I wanted.  It also allows me to keep looking for the person that will make me happy.


4.Controversial.  It's better to make an impression than none at all.


5.Critically acclaimed.  I would rather be critically acclaimed because then I know that even if I receive no recognition whatever I have accomplished was truly appreciated by those that really care. 

Reply #17 from JoeUser Forums Top
1. Extremely unattractive.
2. Completely deaf. I have glaucoma the thought of blindness suffocates me.
3. These are one and the same to me, no difference. I am miserably in love and it's made me feel miserably lonely.
4. Controversial
5. Critically acclaimed.

Great questions!
Reply #18 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ? Extremely unattractive, i value intelligence over attractiveness anyday.

2/ totally blind or completely deaf ? Deaf...as much as i would hate not being able to listen to music anymore, i honestly would not know what to do if i could no longer read...but on the other hand i love to talk and carry on coversations and whatnot and not being able to hear would severly compromise this...i don't know...i think i still have to go with deaf.


3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ? miserably lonely, you can develop an exit strategy for that.


4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ? Wildly controversial. If i were utterly acceptable i think it would be indicative of having no outstanding personality traits and i probably wouldn't stand for much

5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ? Critically acclaimed, i would much rather have someone who is an expert in whatever i was being acclaimed for appreciate what i am doing than a world full of people who probably don't know the first thing about it.
Reply #19 from JoeUser Forums Top
Looks like brains have got 100% of the vote so far, and I think Critically acclaimed is also running very strong with only 1.5 dissents.
Reply #20 from JoeUser Forums Top
Vanessa where have you been? You've been scarce lately


I was thinking the same thing!
Reply #21 from JoeUser Forums Top
1/ extremely unattractive or exceptionally unintelligent ?
Exceptionally unintelligent.

2/ totally blind or completely deaf ?
I love music so much, but I think I could love poetry just as much if I were more self-diciplined. I would have to say I'd rather be completely deaf. I think I would feel so totally lost without my sight.

3/ unhappily in love or miserably lonely ?
This is a good question. I think I'd rather be miserably lonely, though... because I don't think I'd be that horribly lonely. Although if we could work through our problems eventually I guess I'd rather be unhappily in love

4/ wildly controversial or utterly acceptable ?
I couldn't stand to be anything but wildly controversial!

5/ world famous or critically acclaimed ?
Hmm... depends on what my accoplishments would be. I guess critically acclaimed, though.

Great Job, Mig!

~Sarah
Reply #22 from JoeUser Forums Top
i'm back. argh. sorry . it's all marcos' fault. my head is still spinning. and i'm coming right back with the stats ... promise

mig XX
Reply #23 from JoeUser Forums Top

ok, my own answers:

i'd rather be unnattrractive than stupid

i'd rather be deaf than blind

i'd rather be unhappily in love than lonely

i'd rather be wildly controversial than acceptable

i'd rather be critically acclaimed than world famous

(no surprises there, i imagine)

now for you guys !



you dont need to be good looking to talk the pants of a fine filly!


awww. how would you know, muggy ?

this was a fnatastic friday 5 Miggy!!! you haven't been around much! I guess you and Marco are having fun huh!!!


i know. i have been so slack. marco has written 3 blogs since he got here and my brain is just scrambled egg


Where as intelligence will never leave me, and will take me much further than beauty would, or at least alot further in the places I wanted to go.


alright sal !. just the way i'd have put it

Miserabley lonely


sal, you big softie


Thanks Marco. Guess I was hoping for more than I can get! (Gee - that doesn't sound like me at all!)


heeh suz i was yelling stuff out from the bathtub "marco ! tell suz that i meant ..."

Critically acclaimed. Fame doesn't interest me. I'd like to do something of worth rather than popular interest.


and you will, my dear !. you will !

Have a good night out migs.


ooooh. damned young people. 4.30am i got to bed !. marco drank so much wine i don't know how he's still walking around. by rights, he should be comatose.



And if I was any dumber, there are certain um "higher pleasures" in life i couldn't enjoy like culture etc.


dyl, dumb people can't say funky stuff like that hehe

I love music too much not to hear it.


you know dyl, that's you, muggy and suz who have all stated music so far as more important than sight. amazing stuff !

I think I'd rather just think and do what I want, some people'll accept it and some won't.


dyl, that's controversy i think. unless you're planning to take up macrame ?

Thanks Vanessa..Have a good day.


*smooch* i did have a good day, too !. thanks dyl, you too



I could always get plastic surgery, but I'm not sure they have cranial implants yet...


yep. this weeks best answer award goes to ... drumroll ..... splateaux

I can't even imagine how hard it would be just trying to get around in every day life without sight.


i'm with you there.

I'd have to go with being unhappily in love. I at least need someone to crack jokes at.


crack jokes AT !. hehe

I would be wildly controversial, but not really on purpose


great line. may i steal it please ?

Keep working for the rest of my life or win the lotto tomorrow ?


excellent ! a sixth question. i hope someone else will answer. thank you splateaux !



Unattractive


thereas, you're like me on this one !. no hesitation, no explanation needed

Been both, hated both.....refuse to choose one.....


thanks for still adding your reason, though, theresa, i can't blame you for not choosing

Wildly controversial would be MUCH more fun!!


wouldn't it ?



Love it! Best answer yet


alright, suz !. i'm glad you saw that too. i agree !




I'm not about to give up my brain


it's my puzzling buddy !. hi citahellion. and you giving up your brain would be a tragedy for me too !.

I am too visually oriented to give that up


me too, citahellion.

I'll go with in love because at least then I'll be getting some


*giggling to self*. i like your reasoning !

Controversial. Just for a change of pace


well, ok. maybe just this once hehe

Why be appreciated by a few when you can be loved by many?


one day you shall be, citahellion, my puzzling friend !


Unattractive


hi kayles . Look !. every single one of us has gone for a whack with the ugly stick so far !

what would the world be without music


that's ahead for blindness so far. i am amazed.

I've felt loney when I was single at times, but then I look at all of my friends and I move on and enjoy my life!


i wish more woman shared that view kayles. good for you

I HATE how acceptable I am sometimes! It gets boring!


oh kayles, you're a rebel !. i am too !. we said cheeky stuff about jesse in a blog once ! yeah !. we're rebellious hehe

critically acclaimed- I had to think about this one for a minute. I like intimacy, I think that's why I chose this.


that's a great answer, kayles. i really liked your explanation.



I'd rather be ugly than stupid.


yay !. it's dharma !. and you my dear, will never be either !

Deaf


me too. i would be so scared to be blind. i'm so clumsy for starters !

Acceptable is boring and normal.


you said it, dharma !. redheads rock ! hehe




That's easy. I'm already extremely unattractive, so I'll stick with that.


oh dear cs guy. we all know that isn't true. you have very nice eyes.

unhappily in love, I guess. I'm not sure I would really be capable of either, though.


great answer cs, very honest. i love this !

Utterly acceptable.


first one i think, cs. any reason why ?

Though I don't put much stock in fame or critics.


sounds like wise advice, cs guy



Extremely unattractive. I don't really give a shit if somebody finds me attractive or not. I'd be more bothered if I couldn't understand the stuff that I am interested in right now, or strive to learn.


totally agreed, nicky.

Difficult! I'd have to say completely deaf, only because I enjoy reading and writing so much. Life without sound though.... doesn't sound like a life that I would enjoy.


i found this tough for those same reasons, nicky. but i too chose to keep my sight in the end

Miserably lonely, but the question to consider is this, why am I so miserable to be on my own?


yep nicky, i think we all wonder that sometimes.

only to say that I'm guessing that being wildly controversial takes a lot of hard work at maintaining the image


that's a good point nicky, if to be controversial was outside your nature, it would be hard to live up to.

Nice one, Mig! I must admit that I really enjoy the 'friday fives'.


thankyou so much nicky. i really love them too. it's like having a party full of interesting people and you have the freedom to ask really probing questions you can't normally ask or something !.



Vanessa where have you been? You've been scarce lately, like me.


carlos, i have had marco here ("notsohighlyevolved'"). he somehow managed to write 3 blogs in the past 3 days, but i could barely squeak out a friday five !.

A fear of mine is to lose intellect and not question the things I question today. I couldn't imagine not understanding the things that interest me so much now.


carlos, i couldn't imagine you without your lively thinking !

I could never lose my vision though because in silence I can still enjoy beauty.


i agree, and so beautifully espressed too. thanks

It also allows me to keep looking for the person that will make me happy.


what a great way to look at it, carlos.

Controversial. It's better to make an impression than none at all.


yes !

I would rather be critically acclaimed because then I know that even if I receive no recognition whatever I have accomplished was truly appreciated by those that really care.


again carlos, you speak for me



Extremely unattractive.


we all chose this so far, wisefawn. and hi

thought of blindness suffocates me.


me too. utter fear.

I am miserably in love and it's made me feel miserably lonely.


it's true that you can feel alone even within a relationship, wisefawn. that is real loneliness. i feel for you. i have been there before and it is a terrible bind.

Controversial


i'm so glad you said this

Critically acclaimed.


and you wil be

Great questions!


thankyou, wisefawn. they fried my brain thinking of them heeh



i value intelligence over attractiveness anyday


steve, i know you live by this

i think i still have to go with deaf.


i was the same steve. it was a huge choice, but i went the same way.

miserably lonely, you can develop an exit strategy for that.


is this part of the tao of steve ?

Wildly controversial. If i were utterly acceptable i think it would be indicative of having no outstanding personality traits and i probably wouldn't stand for much


luckily for you, you are fabulous and stand for a great deal

Critically acclaimed, i would much rather have someone who is an expert in whatever i was being acclaimed for appreciate what i am doing than a world full of people who probably don't know the first thing about it.


yep, you have saved me answering this one at length for myself steve. are you channeling me through jesse or something ?



Looks like brains have got 100% of the vote so far, and I think Critically acclaimed is also running very strong with only 1.5 dissents


hi again citahellion. thanks for adding that. it's a good point and it's well espressed. thanks for the chuckle



I was thinking the same thing!


hi again kayles. sorry. blame marco you guys !. "notsohighlyeveolved" marco, that is. he's so damned clever and interesting that i spent his whole visit enraptured. or something. hehe



Exceptionally unintelligent.


alright sarah !. that makes it 100% so far

I love music so much, but I think I could love poetry just as much if I were more self-diciplined. I would have to say I'd rather be completely deaf. I think I would feel so totally lost without my sight.


sarah, that's a very interesting choice, basing poerty on replacing music if you tried. i do think that would give some comfort.

Although if we could work through our problems eventually I guess I'd rather be unhappily in love


i guess there are degrees of "unhappily" in love, too, sarah. as you say, some things can be fixed.

I couldn't stand to be anything but wildly controversial!


good girl ! you go gril !

Hmm... depends on what my accoplishments would be. I guess critically acclaimed, though.


hehe true, sarah. being famous for doing something dodgy would be awful


again, this thing astounds me !THANKYOU ALL SO MUCH ! you are all a bunch of lovely, sweetie, darling people who love brains more than beauty and chose to think of reading instead of perving when it came to blind vs. deaf !!!!.vanessa/mig XX
Reply #24 from JoeUser Forums Top
a late entry, due to ISP problems yesterday....


yay !. i was wondering where you were sabrina. late never matters . ohhhhhh smiley

Id not trade one iota of my intelligence for anything, not attractiveness, money, love....anything.


i'm with you there

While many blind people are fairly independent, there are still many things that are simply impossible for them to do, like driving, and that alone hinders one's independence greatly


exactly. the thought of losing my sight terrifies me too. i always feel like i need to see faces. and eyes especially.

Besides, id never be "miserably" lonely because im quite good at entertaining myself, and i love my dogs!


sabrina, we have 2 dogs, and sometimes i think if something happened to hubby i'd just live with them and probably not marry again, so i know how you feel

Im already controversial, heh, and while its not all its cracked up to be, it has enabled me to experience many things that those who dwell on acceptability would never dream of.


thanks for adding this. i chose "controversial", although i am hardly a controversial person, yet i would much rather prefer it to acceptance on every level. the lack of challenge would be so stunting to growth, as you say.

Wildly Famous. Critical acclaim is nice, but unless theres money involved..(like winning a Nobel or Pulitzer Prize) id have to choose fame. I would then be so rich i could hire a whole damn army to protect my privacy when i desire it, right?


for you sabrina, both



mig XX
Reply #25 from JoeUser Forums Top

ps: marco, you promised to answer if i did !.

*sulking*


mig XX