Banned for forgetting fried green tomatoes the dish and Fried Green Tomatoes the film.
And I forgot you're gay. It's not something that comes up a lot, so I really don't think about it.
That film reference is more queer stuff, but the fried fruit dish is well worth trying also. No worries about forgetting I'm the token homo. It's actually a sign of progress, but the struggle is far from over so uppity folks like me need to, well, be uppity now and then.