Distancing myself

-or- letting you know

from JoeUser Forums
It may be a combination of things going on at home, at work, and here at JU, but I simply cannot take anymore of this filth. Perhaps I am being too sensitive, perhaps I am judging harshly, and perhaps I am in the wrong.

But there are some folks here I need to distance myself from, at least for a time, while the tidal wave of rancor passes. I respect you enough to let you know that I may be scarce to read or comment where I would have done in the past. I don't want my silence to be misconstrued as something more than it is. But at the same time I don't want it to be assumed to be simply a factor of my being lazy. No, there is a method and a purpose to it.

And that purpose is to preserve my sanity.

Any way you slice it, Yoda was on to something. "Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering"

Call it what you want, but the thick pall of anger and hate hovering over certain sectors here will never lead to anything but suffering. With all the suffering in the world as it is, the last thing I am going to do is willingly subject myself to more of it. I will still be here, writing, commenting, and moving forward. I just may not frequent certain spots for a time.

I look forward to a brighter future. I hope it comes soon.
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top

Dev...you took the words right out of my mouth.

I made the mistake of playing into this hatred this morning.  I'm kicking myself for doing it....but I too am going to distance myself for a while. 

I can't be around it, it makes me angry, and then my anger eats at me....it's a no-win situation.

If I don't talk to you before, I hope that you have a wonderful new year....oh, and I'm working on a beanie for you new little peanut.

Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top

"""I look forward to a brighter future. I hope it comes soon."""

ditto

Trinitie

Siege of Centauri
Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
If I don't talk to you before, I hope that you have a wonderful new year....oh, and I'm working on a beanie for you new little peanut.


Thanks. Same to you dharma, I hope it is a pleasant one. And we will look forward to the beanie for the peanut. That is kind of you.

Trinitie: I know I am not the only one feeling that, but it helps to actually see it. I appreciate it.
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Doc, I wholeheartedly agree!

This aint grade school folks. Some of us have forgotten that they are supposed to be adults. And some just love it when the blood hits the water.

Makes me sick really.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Makes me sick really.


You know, reading some of the absolute refuse that has been written here lately I honestly was nauseous. I have a pretty hearty constitution, and it takes a lot to perturb me. Well, some here succeeded, and I am not going to put myself through it. Thanks for backing me up thatoneguy!
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Anytime! Us Utah boys gotta stick together.
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
Words of wisdom from a muppet, isn't life great? Enjoy your distance and take care of yourself.
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
Anytime! Us Utah boys gotta stick together.


hey what about me??
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
Heh, we got your back to Silver and Jade. No worries.
Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hah, Danny, it took me a minute to figure out what you mean with the muppet comment. Yes, I forgot I referred to Yoda briefly (though as of late he has morphed from muppet to CG, oh well). Yes, life is great, if we choose to make it so.
Reply #12 from JoeUser Forums Top
I'm taking a beautiful walk through a meadow right now, and it's so peaceful here. I don't know what's happening beyond this little valley, but I don't really care.

Cheers to you, BlueDev, and everyone else. You can come walk with me too, if you like.

-A.
Reply #13 from JoeUser Forums Top
Will do A. You are one of those I knew I could still e-hang with. I appreciate the invite.
Reply #14 from JoeUser Forums Top
Maybe everyone should do a little distancing... JU is a great place, but maybe Brad should close it for a week...let heads cool off for awhile. I know it wont happen, but I still think it's a good idea...
Reply #15 from JoeUser Forums Top
I admit I feel a little confused by all the stuff on JU lately. I'm not sure what to make of certain folk now, but I guess I don't really know most of them anyway.

I'll join you guys on the meadow.
Reply #16 from JoeUser Forums Top
life is great, if we choose to make it so.


BlueDev: I guess we've been talking about this for a little while now. I avoid even looking at those posts that are negatively titled these days. Most of the time, they're just not worth the effort.

Now, on to nicer matters. I hope you had a great Christmas and are planning on similar New Year's Eve celebrations. All my very best to you and yours,

Cheers,

Maso
Reply #17 from JoeUser Forums Top
I admit I feel a little confused by all the stuff on JU lately. I'm not sure what to make of certain folk now, but I guess I don't really know most of them anyway.


Very true. I have felt more than a little confused and befuddled at the animosity. The meadow is a nice place, your spot is saved.

I hope you had a great Christmas and are planning on similar New Year's Eve celebrations. All my very best to you and yours,


We really did Maso. It was a blast to see the girls excited about their presents, and even more fun to see them psyched about giving presents. We have some good friends coming over tomorrow night, so it should be fun as well. How was yours? And there most certainly is a spot for you in the meadow Maso.
Reply #18 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hey BlueDev,

There's this feeling of accidently walking into loud conversations and feeling really uncomfortable for having overheard them lately (for me anway).

Is it ok if I e-mail you sometime?
Reply #19 from JoeUser Forums Top
Dusk411: Email me any time you would like! Absolutely. You can either get it in the "Contact Me" link on my sidebar (which will automatically open your default email program) or send it to Petey DOT Jones AT gmail DOT com.
Reply #20 from JoeUser Forums Top
BlueDev:

You'll be missed when you are on your break, but a walk in A's meadow sound like a very pleasant alternative at the moment. I've simply begun to avoid the forums and only to go a select few blogs of people that I know I want to read.

It's funny how people can utter the words "Season's Greetings" or "Merry Christmas" or whatever one minute and spew hatred the next. But the only thing you can do is lead by example and not fall into the game.

I'm glad to hear you had a great christmas--its always best when there are little ones around, they keep the magic alive!
Reply #21 from JoeUser Forums Top
Shades: Thanks for your comments. I have actually seen some calming since this time yesterday. So I continue to have hope. I will still be around, I will just be doing what you have been doing: keeping myself to a few blogs and writers who I know won't be engaging in the nastiness. You know, blogs like yours. Pleasant ones.

I hope your Holidays were pleasant as well.
Reply #22 from JoeUser Forums Top
Just a sheepish little apology for you and JU in general, BlueDev. Happy new year.
Reply #23 from JoeUser Forums Top
Happy new year to you as well Tex. I appreciate the apology.
Reply #24 from JoeUser Forums Top
BlueDev - I had a pretty similar Christmas Day to yours, without the kids, though. Instead, my wife and I played host to a few friends, one who'd travelled from London to be with us. A very relaxed day was had by all. New Year's Ever was spent overlooking Sydney city, watching the fireworks and indulging in far too much good cheer. I must be getting old as it now takes me days to get over a single night like this. But it was worth it.

I look forward to the days of the meadow, my friend.
Reply #25 from JoeUser Forums Top
Let's just all sing together. Pass the mike ?