Are You Lonesome Tonight?

*sigh*

from JoeUser Forums
As I sit here toggling so many things in my head(yes, so many things you wouldn't believe) I realize that I have a pang of loneliness. I don't know why this needs to bug me now....maybe it was the dance or just trying to file all of these thoughts in my head, but I'm just incredibly lonely. I usually don't feel this way, but sometimes you just can't help it. I need a girlfriend....I can't help but say it. If I could just find someone who doesn't look like it crawled from the sewers and actually accepts me for who I am, I would be on the metaphorical cloud 9....but alas, I'm still destined to be a lone, sorrowful person. Friends are good...but they only go so far. It seems almost everyone around me has someone.....and it just kind of makes me feel....left out. Perhaps it's only my teenage hormones talking...though I don't think so....oh well. I can handle it....I've got to stop getting all emotional....maybe Alex is rubbing off on me. Well I suppose helping other people dulls the pain, but.....it doesn't make it go away.

Well, until next time,
~Zoo
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
If you ever want to talk about anything shaun I am here. Dont feel so lonesome...even though I know you cant help it.

~Live Life to the Fullest~
Ns38
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Don’t feel lonely… when you find that person, you know you love…. You can tell them anything. They are your world, they are your everything. And love will grow even more after that.

Love IS something to be emotional about… if you are not emotional, it is not love. With love, you cry when you are upset, and when you are happy. You laugh when you are amused, and when you’re angry. You can’t explain, but when you find it, you won’t need to explain anything.

I know that it’s not your “hormones” talking, you want to find a companion. You want someone to trust. I understand.

Here is a poem I wrote this morning at…. 4:30.

Love is forgiving
Love is kind
Love is a friendship
Love never gives up
Love is always there
Love is mutual
Love is faithful
Love is true
Love has emotion
Love never lies
Love is strong
Love is beautiful
Love is always there
Love never is discouraged
Love is about compromise
Love is happiness
Love remains in the heart
No matter how many times it’s been torn apart


You are NOT destine to be a lonely person…. You are going to find someone, and when you do… never give up and never let them get away without telling how much you love them.

I am not going to rely on you anymore Shaun… it is hurting you and everyone else to bad. It is not that I don’t trust you… I just think maybe instead of telling you everything I feel, I should be telling the person I am directing it to. You don’t need the stress, I am sorry.

But, I think now is when YOU need someone to comfort you. I am there, and you know I am. If you ever want to talk, pull me aside and I will…. I am never busy when it comes to my friends. Just ask my soccer girls… I will go to the ends of the earth for them, and that goes for anyone who has ever been there for me like you have.

Love Sam…
Sins of a Solar Empire II
Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Poor Shaun. I know how you feel. It stinks. But I can't see you going your whole life without running into the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You're just the kind of nice guy I'd look for if I wasn't straight.

Capt. over and out!
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanks guys...

Though this:
You're just the kind of nice guy I'd look for if I wasn't straight.


That's a bit creepy but thanks all the same....I think.

~Zoo
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
You sound like a nice guy. Hint: The girl of your dreams will be there. Maybe tomorrow. Maybe one year from now. Maybe 5 years from now. Maybe 10 years from now. What I'm trying to say, that destiny will happen. Just be patient and WAIT!!
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Do you need a ska cd too? i'm making one for alex, that emo's really killin him. Don't worry shaun, God has a plan for you, whether you know it or acknowledge it.
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
Do you need a ska cd too? i'm making one for alex, that emo's really killin him.


If you want to make one...I'm not emo, remember....so it's not imperative.

Don't worry shaun, God has a plan for you, whether you know it or acknowledge it.


I know...I just wish he'd tell me or something.

~Zoo
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
Shaun you sound like I do! Stop(e) it this minute! You can't put yourself down like I do to myself. I won't let you! lol. I guess if you want advice read my article about Prince Charming again.

~carebear~
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
Shaun:

As someone else said, you seem like a great guy and eventually your great girl is going to come, but don't rush it. High school and college are times to figure out who you are, what you want, and how you are going to get it. It's great to be in a relationship at that time, but sometimes those relationships cause you to loose sight of you.

I know a lot of people who always had to be half of a couple, could never stand to be single. Now, faced with being single in their late twenties, they are lost--because they've never been on their own in their entire lives. They don't know the difference between being alone and being lonely.

For a relationship to succeed (in my opinion) you have to want someone more than you need them. There is a desperateness in "needing" someone--the idea that you can't survive without them. It's much more romantic to be independent and capable of living on your own, but desiring to spend your life with another person. While you may "want" a girlfiend, I hope you don't truly "need" one.

Many a wiser person than me has said that it is impossible to love another until you truly know yourself. I have to agree--so embrace this opportunity to learn all your own intricacies--that way when Ms. Right comes along, you'll be ready for a relationship!
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yuck! Boys are gross!!! But I'm glad you have moved on to more mature thinking... I'm always there for you as a friend and a confident if you will ever tell me anything. God has the right chick for you, so don't worry too much. I'll say a prayer for you!

Live and Learn,
Kinjruh