She called him

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I stayed at Darren's last nite because I had (and still have) a horrible abodominal pain , and at 5.00 am this morning the phone rings. He stayed on the phone for about 15 mns. When he came back to bed i asked him half asleep who it was. His answer fully awoke me. It was Aurélie, his ex-girlfriend. And before i could say anything he said: 'she called just like that', gave me a kiss on the forehead and asked how my stomach was. All i could manage to say was 'sore'.

Her early call can be explained by the fact that she lives in France now. But it still gave me a shock. Not only that she called but also that he'd take it so casually like it happens all the time or something!

I couldnt get back to sleep, I tossed and rolled for a while trying to find a comfortable position for the pain. I couldnt stop thinking about it, about her phone call. I felt as if someone had peeled off my skin and left my flesh exposed. A breeze felt as sharp as a razor blade. But at the same time i felt my limbs go numb.

I got up unusually early for a Monday. Started getting ready, but under the shower all i could think of was her, and why she called him.

At the begining she kept telling me how he was a loser, and how he still called and emailed her stupid stuff and all that. But i worked things out with him. And now she's the one calling him?

I'm confused and angry. I sent her an email and asked what was up with her calling and is she still in love with him. I know it wasnt smooth, but i cant let her calling him in the early hours for no reason. I dont think i'll like what i'll find out but like i told her i like to have a clear vision of things. I'm gonna have a thourough talk with Darren too.

I seriously dont like this too much.............................
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
To quote .38 Special: Hang on loosly but don't let go! Go with the flow and trust him and don't worry about her feelings so much, it's HIS feelings that count! It'll all work out...
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hey thanks Shovelheat, i know you're right.
And i've talked to him on the phone (he called to check how i was feeling). And i said you know i've emailed her to ask her what was up with the phone call. And he said 'oh ok. well you just needed to ask me, i would've told you. She just called like that. We havent talked since the last time she was here, that's all' And i said, it's none of my business. What i didnt like is that she talked so much shit about him to me, and i find out she is the one calling him after months of no communication. I'm like WHAT?
You know what i'm saying, it sux. I think she's a hypocrite, pretending to be my friend, and calling him behind my back.
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
I think she's a hypocrite, pretending to be my friend, and calling him behind my back.


she is. she is !

that is not sisterly of her at all, but don't play into her trap by getting upset and jealous. YOU have the man, not her. she's the one calling him, and it sounds like your man is no fool - he'd be aware that she's up to something.

and if the phone rings again in the small hours, answer it yourself and say 'he can't come to the phone - he has his hands full !' and hang up !

mig XXX
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Heya Mig! Thanks for stopping by!

So you reckon she's playin us too huh?

You're right i'm trying to keep control, but i dont know what s stopping me from sending her an email full of swears grrr!!!!!

and if the phone rings again in the small hours, answer it yourself and say 'he can't come to the phone - he has his hands full !' and hang up !

Heehee! I like that!!
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
No worries, babe...and I'll tell you why...

If he were interested in her, he wouldn't have told you she called...he would have made up some story about it being some one else.
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanx Tex, it's true

But then again what kind of story could he have made up that makes sense when someone calls at 5.00am and he stays on the phone for 15 mns, heh.
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
I'm with Shovel, mon ami. Don't make a big deal out of it or it will turn into a big deal. As Tex said, he told you straight up, so it is obvious he is not hiding anything from you. As for her bad-mouthing D, ignore that as well. It sounds like sour grapes to me. Either that, or she wants him back because she has seen how happy he is with you (believe me, I've seen this behaviour a number of times and it never fails to make me laugh - it is so obvious).
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanks Maso, i dont really feel threatened. I am actually disappointed with her. I thought I could trust her but i've found out this. It makes me just wanna give up on everything else you know. I know that probably i'm wearing my heart on my sleeve too much. And even though people have taken advantage of it before i still wanna go out there and give myself to others without worrying about them hurting me. But when it happens gosh, it sucks, big time...

I'll just have to swallow it down and get over it.
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
I am a firm believer in wearing my heart where it is exposed. At least then you don't have to worry about others not understanding what you are feeling. And you're right, it does suck sometimes but at least you're being true to yourself.
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
I agree with what everyone said. I especially agree with Migs. And it's ok to feel the way you do. Don't give up because that sounds like what she wants you to do. She's just playing you. Have your talk like you said, it will make you feel better and clear the air for you to get over it.