My husband thinks our sex is vulgar

sounds funny huh...?

May 19, 2005 9:26 AM from

This morning I wake up to see my naked husband fresh out of a shower clutching his towel.

Me: Hi

Him: Whew, I'm cold!

Me: Come under the covers, I'll warm you up.

Him: I gotta get ready for work, I don't have time.

Me: For what?

Him: Cuddling...

Me: Actually I was thinking maybe I could suck your cock or you could fuck my pussy real quick.

Him: I think we should stop saying that.

Me: huh

Him: Fuck your pussy...It's vulgar

Keep in mind. I met my hubby at 17, so I generally didn't even say the words pussy or cock before meeting him. (He's corrupted me hehe) So I'm sitting there confused. Is he trying to say he wants to have romantic sex with me? We've been married 3 years. Together for 4. We've never had romantic sex to be honest. I ask him "You don't want me to say fuck even when we have sex?" His response "It just seems vulgar"

Later during the conversation I said to him "You are starting to sound like your father, and thats not someone I'm interested in having sex with."

What happened? Did I do something wrong?

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Reply #1 May 19, 2005 9:42 AM from

JoeUser Forums Top

That is a funny story, made me laugh. As for you doing something wrong, maybe you two should talk about it more or some such? If you've never had romantic sex, maybe you could try it just to be different? Who knows, you might find you like it. Or he might decide vulgar is more fun

Reply #2 May 19, 2005 10:23 AM from

JoeUser Forums Top

First a question. What do you consider "romantic" sex.

I prefer the word rod to cock. To me it sounds better.

I don't think you did anything wrong. I find it a turn-on when my wife asker me to F* her. I do not know about vulgar, but the direcrness of it excites me. There is no room for doubt or mistake, you know exactly what she wants. I also enjoy a little verbal forplay, but direct works fine.

IG

Reply #3 May 19, 2005 10:43 AM from

JoeUser Forums Top

That type of language isn't for ladies.

Reply #4 May 19, 2005 11:24 AM from

JoeUser Forums Top

Hey, if he's uptight about it that's one thing. Maybe he wasn't in the mood and he was trying to divert attention by mentioning your choice of language. My wife is "vulgar" like that sometimes and I'm tickled that she is uninhibited like that. If you let him know that it turns you on to speak this kind of "vulgarity" maybe he'll be able to accept it more. Good luck.

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