SOME PEOPLES CHILDREN
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My title as you can read for yourself is SOME PEOPLES CHILDREN . I am sure you are an adult, maybe even have children of your own. As well as I do too. This matter I am having to deal with in my hands is really really &%*@ up.
I have a friend (lucky me). In this world I live in friends around here are hard to come by. I mean real good ones. Any way, with this friend of mine that have,
I have known him for about three years now. Him and I have gone through a little share of doing some dirt together, making each other feel bad and all those things that friends do.
We even tried to have a relationship three different times. We finally realized and decided that him and I are better friends than we are lovers. So still we did remain friends.
Time went on, him and I had our own hobbies that we enjoyed dabbling into. His worse than mine but since he was my friend I accepted his faults, learned my lesson (so I thought), and of course kept our dabblings seperate from each other.
Knowing that it would get in the way of our friendship. Not to say that I am any kind perfect person but those dabblings with him just ended up me always coming up short after I put forth money, my word, and trust. I am sure there were a few times my own a%& was on the line.
No matter how muddy those waters got I stuck with him.
He did a few things that I would consider just plain and simply f^#@ed up,
but me having such a big heart and didn't want to let any one that I considered a friend, down. I kept giving him the benefit of the doubt. Okay I understand that &%*! happens. I know that from my own experience. The things that he does were all preventable. Only if he didn't have his head stuck in the clouds or something like that. Even after he called the police on my. (Reason I was being mischievious on his property, he had thrown away a few sentimental effects that I had left there). I didn't go to jail or anything. But where I come from you do not call the police for any reason at all. NONE!!! You know what I am saying here?
Once again I forgave him. Giving him the benefit of the doubt, his head being so far gone up in the clouds he forgot about his friend. Of course we all know after about three years of becoming someone's friend. Getting to know each other like they are the other person. He was a lover, a friend, my also girl friend. I now really think he is gay. Which is okay by me just stop hiding from it and admit that. Life might go a little smoother if you did. Okay so we are really good friends after all that dirt after all that hurt, after all the things that the both of us have apologized for and forgave each other for he goes and starts to do his dabbling with me again. Now by what I mean by dabbling - did I tell you - oh yes it must not be something you need to know.
He starts this with me again.
Of course I know what kind of person he is when he comes to this kind of relationship.
He knows that I know what kind of person he is. So for his security for me to feel secure with him he brings me his roommates toys.
TOYS - car stereo system, computer, tools, etc... He needs some odd amount of money from me for some unknown reason.
I don't snoop into certain things in his life because like I just wrote above
.....did I tell you....
He says he will have my cash for me by the next day.
I emphasised he needed to bring back the cash by tomorrow other wise I wont be able to pay my bills.
Also too he emphasised he would be back with all of the money I loaned him.
I mean come on now he brought me is room mates things and told me it was okay.
All these past three years never has he done some really stupid crap like this. This so called friend that I used to have in him was always there for me. Always made sure I was okay safe you know all those things. But see I am independently stand on my own two feet. Didn't need any help from any one.
So I give in to loan he is out the door.
The next day has come and gone now,
I have talked to him he says he is waiting for someone from
Wyoming to get to Colorado.
They have my cash. Now
I just sit back and wait for all of my resoursces to turn off (eletrical, gas). Another bill that wasn't supposed to go past today, oh my gosh. I have all the things he left here for collatoral. I do have some buyers coming to get it. I need my money. Need to pay my bills.
Need to get rid of this friend that has his
head stuck up in the clouds
Way up in the clouds. Don't know what to do about him.
Yes I know he isn't my responsiblity but, I can't let any one think they can use me like that either. Okay let me know what you all think.
Helps me any maybe you understand why the quote is written -&&#$ED UP PEOPLE DO &&#$ED UP THINGS AT &&#$ED TIMES!!!!!!
If your friend simply robbed you of the last bit of cash you had, which was a large amount. Still no payment. What would you do. Please no body respond, "What would Jesus Do". I am religious I have my own belief system just like every one else in the place we call earth.
I will say TTFN
Ta
Ta
For
Now.......lilred- A Fairy and A Warlock
JUST BREATHE.
I have a friend (lucky me). In this world I live in friends around here are hard to come by. I mean real good ones. Any way, with this friend of mine that have,
I have known him for about three years now. Him and I have gone through a little share of doing some dirt together, making each other feel bad and all those things that friends do.
We even tried to have a relationship three different times. We finally realized and decided that him and I are better friends than we are lovers. So still we did remain friends.
Time went on, him and I had our own hobbies that we enjoyed dabbling into. His worse than mine but since he was my friend I accepted his faults, learned my lesson (so I thought), and of course kept our dabblings seperate from each other.
Knowing that it would get in the way of our friendship. Not to say that I am any kind perfect person but those dabblings with him just ended up me always coming up short after I put forth money, my word, and trust. I am sure there were a few times my own a%& was on the line.
No matter how muddy those waters got I stuck with him.
He did a few things that I would consider just plain and simply f^#@ed up,
but me having such a big heart and didn't want to let any one that I considered a friend, down. I kept giving him the benefit of the doubt. Okay I understand that &%*! happens. I know that from my own experience. The things that he does were all preventable. Only if he didn't have his head stuck in the clouds or something like that. Even after he called the police on my. (Reason I was being mischievious on his property, he had thrown away a few sentimental effects that I had left there). I didn't go to jail or anything. But where I come from you do not call the police for any reason at all. NONE!!! You know what I am saying here?
Once again I forgave him. Giving him the benefit of the doubt, his head being so far gone up in the clouds he forgot about his friend. Of course we all know after about three years of becoming someone's friend. Getting to know each other like they are the other person. He was a lover, a friend, my also girl friend. I now really think he is gay. Which is okay by me just stop hiding from it and admit that. Life might go a little smoother if you did. Okay so we are really good friends after all that dirt after all that hurt, after all the things that the both of us have apologized for and forgave each other for he goes and starts to do his dabbling with me again. Now by what I mean by dabbling - did I tell you - oh yes it must not be something you need to know.
He starts this with me again. Of course I know what kind of person he is when he comes to this kind of relationship.
He knows that I know what kind of person he is. So for his security for me to feel secure with him he brings me his roommates toys.
TOYS - car stereo system, computer, tools, etc... He needs some odd amount of money from me for some unknown reason.
I don't snoop into certain things in his life because like I just wrote above
.....did I tell you....
He says he will have my cash for me by the next day.
I emphasised he needed to bring back the cash by tomorrow other wise I wont be able to pay my bills.
Also too he emphasised he would be back with all of the money I loaned him.
I mean come on now he brought me is room mates things and told me it was okay.
All these past three years never has he done some really stupid crap like this. This so called friend that I used to have in him was always there for me. Always made sure I was okay safe you know all those things. But see I am independently stand on my own two feet. Didn't need any help from any one.
So I give in to loan he is out the door.
The next day has come and gone now,
I have talked to him he says he is waiting for someone from
Wyoming to get to Colorado.
They have my cash. Now
I just sit back and wait for all of my resoursces to turn off (eletrical, gas). Another bill that wasn't supposed to go past today, oh my gosh. I have all the things he left here for collatoral. I do have some buyers coming to get it. I need my money. Need to pay my bills.
Need to get rid of this friend that has his
head stuck up in the clouds
Way up in the clouds. Don't know what to do about him.
Yes I know he isn't my responsiblity but, I can't let any one think they can use me like that either. Okay let me know what you all think.
Helps me any maybe you understand why the quote is written -&&#$ED UP PEOPLE DO &&#$ED UP THINGS AT &&#$ED TIMES!!!!!!
If your friend simply robbed you of the last bit of cash you had, which was a large amount. Still no payment. What would you do. Please no body respond, "What would Jesus Do". I am religious I have my own belief system just like every one else in the place we call earth.
I will say TTFN
Ta
Ta
For
Now.......lilred- A Fairy and A Warlock
JUST BREATHE.