this girl i met

shes nice

yeah ok well I met her online a few weeks ago, and although i have never met her face to face im feeling a strange interest for her, i have her pic and i love the way she looks and as far as i can tell she has a great personality and id love to get to know her better. she lives about 2 hrs away from me in regional s.a but thats cool ill travell to see her, and she comes down here every now and then. we talk online when we can but working at different sides of the day makes it hard for us to talk even on the phone and our busy lifestyles also clash a little!

tell you the truth im scared to ring her, im really bad on the phone and take a while to get to know ppl properly and i tend to spill to much to ppl i dont know so you see my dilema here, its been ages since ive had to ring a girl i like and im just nervous i guess:)
im going to ring her this week and get it over with cos she seems really nice:) she has the most beautifull eyes and smile and I have this pic of her that i cant seem to stop looking at!!

is this normal????
Im feeling happy:)
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Reply #1 Top
Nothing wrong with getting a little giddy over a new possibility. Just don't get your hopes up too much since you haven't met her in person yet. Looks can be deceiving right?
Reply #3 Top
I HATE HATE HATE TALKING ON THE PHONE! I feel your pain bro, I really do.

Trinitie
Reply #4 Top
Go on do it...i meet my boyfriend on here felt the way you did and i know he did to....we meet and have been together ever since..you have nothing to loss..if you dont get on then you dont have to meet again...if you do well hey presto....but make it clear before you meet your meeting as mates...that way you wont feel any pressure...go on go for it...you never know whats round the corner....
Love Libby
Reply #5 Top
Sounds like she is "The Goods". Go for it. Don't waste too much time. The longer you leave anything, the harder it will be to do. Even if you do something really little first... it's better than nothing at all.

Try this on for size... I met this wicked awesome girl a little while ago and she introduced me to JoeUser. Because she has a JU account herself, it means she reads all my posts. All I wanna do is talk about her and things like that but how can I if I know she's going to read it all the next day?

I know I can set my articles to be hidden, but then I can't get advice or feedback from anyone! Anyone have any ideas?
Reply #6 Top
Semireal...........level with her, tell her how you feel. Its normal to be nervous. When you love someone, you always feel insecure. If she is really nice dont let her get away. Tell her everything you feel. Tell her all your crazy thoughts. Tell her when your not with her you wish you were.

Give her every reason to believe your for real. Take it from me. I have made many mistakes. The worst thing you can do is not being totally honest about how you feel about her. You must be willing to take a chance even if you may get hurt down the road. And always be true to her. Tell her shes the best thing that ever happened to you.

Reply #7 Top
Simple advice, go for it. It's better to try and fail than not to try and then constantly have second thoughts and might have beens.
Reply #8 Top
Theophilus.... you can choose your audience.. only allow a select group of people to read it

As far as the chick thing goes... you have nothing to lose mate, if this one doesn't work out, there will always be another one - but you have to try first.

BAM!!!