OMEGA.

The Last

well yesterday I moved the very last of my stuff out of my exes house, well not everything i wanted but you have to leave somethings behind for the greater good. I didnt know how to feel about it so I did it as quickly as I could and then just left.
I said goodbye to my daughter and left, I feel good that I have reahced this point as I have nothing hanging around anymore and I can move on with my life, without having to worry about picking this up or getting that back, its good I feel good.

Everyone i have spoken to tells me to let it all go and just move on, I think I have been doing this for a while now and Im not feeling the resistance I did for the few months after, Im open top new things and people, Im going to ring her tomorrow night and see what kinda conversation we have on the phone, JUST AS MATES, thats a really good way to do it, just a friendly chat to see how things are going, ill try to leave the "im interested part" alone for the time being just to see how things pan out......

let ya'll know how it goes.

Oh an Dharmagurl, thanks for the advice matey, I know your right:) cheers.
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Well, Semireal... I still have some of my stuff at my ex's house... It is not like have not tried last year... but, to be married for 23 years...she is a person I have never seen... I will have my stuff out my May..due to weather.... but, I do not want any hassle.. so I will just get an court order to protect me. She is a for lack of better terms.."a butt hole".... I have tried to be friends... I hope you do better... but I have found out that it is just better to let it die..... well, I have found someone else... not easy.... she found me... I am in NC.. she is in Brazil... we chat over 20 hours m-f and 20-30 hours over the weekend... we chat in the morning..lunch and and night... weekends are open all weekend... we do what we need to do.. but we are there sending messages... we have done this for over two months... I talk to her and know more about her than I ever did with my ex. I am going in 11 days for a two week vacation... I deserve it... I have a cam...she does not...but she does send pics everyday... I feel more at peace with her than with my ex... Let your ex go , man...... there is someone else better for you... time will find her ... mine was due to me through fate.... calling her will only make you feel ripped inside.... do not torture yourself... I know.. I have been there.. I only E-mail my ex..... I do have two pre-teenagers... they are handling it well.. we have grown closer than we could have ever done. Spread your wings .... let the past be a growning lesson.. think of the good times.... let the bad times make you stronger... do not rush into another marriage.... give it time.... good luck ... email me if you need support... Mark