Janders

Janders

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First off thanks to all for the comments, I like hearing others view so I know a little more on what others views, I find it kind of facinating. Shulamite- In actuallity Husband and I do a vey goo job of listening to eachother. We try to repeat what the other is saying in our own words so we gain understanding. We often say to eachother, "I understand what you are saying, but I don;t agree because.....", or "Do you mean this(followed by explan

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I am married to a republican. I relate more independent or democrat, but vote more independent. Now my husband is not on the line at all, he is very Republican, involved in politics, and hopes to start running for offices. We are both passionate on our political stance and this can be a cause for great emotions when we debate politically. All I need to say to g

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thing also that for a lot of people it is much easier to affirm themself against something, someone or any kind of difference instead of trying to understand and build relationship. Jepel- I agree with you on that. It is easier to group people than to take each person on an individual basis. We know that the most intelligent people have biases. I feel it take a lot of personal work to be tolerant. I think being religously t

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You must have had a sleepy day with no good sleep the night before. Although you have a baby so you must be used to interrupted sleep!

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Oooohh. I agree! I think Kenny needs a jean jacket too! You can get one for Kazuko also, and you can be a little matching family! :)

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Although my religion says homosexulaity is a sin, I am not anti-homosexuel. I think we are all sinners so their sin is no worse than our own. I have friends that are gay and I believe people are gay for a reason. They can't be made "straight". Whether this is genetically ingrained from birth or a result of somthing that happened in childhood. I lean more towards people are born that way. What do you think?

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You are lucky to have a relationship with your grandma. I too am very close to my grandma, I feel sad for my cousins that dont give her the time of day. They are missing out.

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Do you think when people are being biased it is with intention of being cruel, or do they not know any different? Ignorance is a poor excuse, because all humans have the intellectual ability to educate themselves.

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I have been very interested, in light of recent articles, how cultural and racial biases are formed. IMO I think it has to be ignorance. To generalize an entire group of people seems ludicris. I racked my brain trying to think of a whole group I am prejudiced against and I could not think of one. I would like to think I am not the minority in this. I am more hopeful in humanity to

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I also live in MN and would love if a city or our state where to buy the twins. Although I agree with Jamie, people wouldn't go for it even if it would eventually bring revenue for the city or state. People don't want to pay the expense to get it up and running. Its too bad, because I would like to know the Twins were here to stay. I have a lot of memories of watching the twins with my dad from the time I was a toddler.

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I thought the twist was really well done, the only thing I didnt like was now I know whats going to happen if I watch it again. THat change of events is best when you dont see it coming!

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Last night husband and I rented Matchstick men starring Nicholas Cage. It was really good. We both really enjoyed all the movies twists and turns! Nicholas Cage was really good in it (of course). The movies basic plot is Nic is a con man that also has OCD. Him and his partner are going for the biggest con they have done. During this he also meets his 14 year old daughter, that he ha

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Some kids I watched had a huge world map painted on one large wall, they had cut outs and pictures (mostly from educational mags) of people from those countries put up on each country. They also put up pics of landmarks, ex: pyramids jungles taj mahal. You could do this of the whole world or just the US with culural points of each state. This blog reminds me of a joke from Mitch Hedberg: " I want to put a map on my wall and put pins

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haha that is super funny.... I do the same thing with your sometimes. I see the title, think hmmm that looks interesting than low and behold it is your site. Crazy times my friend!

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Thanks, you are sweet. Unfortunatly nothing interesting ever happens to me so my blog is kinda boring.... ah well. I will definatly check out that site!

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THe jacket is cool Jaime. You are super stylin' now! :) Love the pics of Kenny of course, hes super cute! The new camera phone must be working well because you are treating us with more baby photos. YAY! Are you guys on spring break this week coming up? Jaysen is, and we might be up in your area going to the outlets. anyhoo, hope you are having a good weekend!

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Make sure you are careful who you piss off. Who knows if the person you cut off or cuts you off could retaliate. You don't want to end up shot for gaining 5 seconds on you trip. But I do applaud you for admitting you were in the wrong! I know I personally ussually blame driving woes on the "other driver".

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Just hanging out at home tonight watching a little Law& order. This evening was Jaysens little cousins birthday party. He had to work but I went by myself. Today was really nice. Jay and I slept in late, and stayed in bed watching history chanel and Waynes world. Sometimes it is nice to have those lazy days.... Last night we went to Starbucks and played cards then we went to

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I think unfortunatly a lot comes with the values that were instilled on us from our parents. My parents taught us to work hard for what we wanted, that life is not a hand out and that no one especially society "owes us" anything. That if we want or need somthing it is our responsibility to work for it. Are parents not teaching these things so it continues to cycle. How do you break the cycle?

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