garsgolfer

garsgolfer

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To give you a sense of my St Patrict day spirit, after reading your post today, I discovered it passed once again without me knowing. Even my wifey and kid didn't seem to realize. To add, I am a SpringBank single malt drinker and don't need a special day, never really liked beer and don't appreciate the color green except on our fairways.

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i am a bit confused tho. what's so different in your life now compared to a couple weeks ago? The above statement implies we’re on one side of the issue or another for ever, not allowing change. When rational intellect leads the mind, not someone’s “life” as you state, he’s able to me

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More succinctly, I am ashamed of those congressional leaders that threw party polarization into the wind to align themselves to stop something noteworthy lead by George Bush’s administration. Yesterday, while reading, Fox news was on in the background. It was being announced UAE had thrown in the towel giving way for an American company to run the ports. Then we're faced with a democrat speaking to congress saying that’s good if it’s a tru

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I am President over two companies; the one I actually work in is a multi-branch Human Resources Corporation that specializes in HR consulting issues, management development and psychological assessment testing and executive search. One of my functions aside from leadership and testing assessment is guiding technology executive search teams, which I have thirty four years of experience. You mention soft ball more then once, and your choosing j

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You're a patient man and reasonable IMO. You go to great lengths to communicate how you feel about, as you say, the melodrama on JU; that's a rare quality and helps you to become a better business person.... You've done enough explaining.

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I'd say that marrying a shallow, self-absorbed, controlling asshole is the precursor to a heavy skillet to the head, and harms a happy marriage faster than most imagine Once again, not a surprising comment.

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If my wife began putting on weight, and suddenly didn't care to keep up her appearance, she'd have a mounting problem with me. She'd hear without hesitation, I didn't marry a slob, uncared for woman, regardless if she’s smart and confident. I expect her to be care for herself, as I do. Make-up isn't over rated, it's a huge business for a reason. Most woman need a bit a help to look their best, whether they admit it or not. Laziness is the

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My wife walked into my office this morning bothered and announced Dana Reeves passed. Even though she didn't say what you have, her face reflected the same feelings, and so did I moments later. I can only hope that after all the trauma their teenage son has endured, he builds upon his trials and tribulations as he grows into a larger then life leader.

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does not hold for homornal pre-30 people You're right, it doesn't hold with many. But, with those of us guided by values and moral behavior it holds because our hormones are not steering. I waited till I was 48yrs old to find the right

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I've got an opposite opinion of many of the statements you've made, and find a lot of your 'telling it like it is' offensive to me. Why would somebody "telling it like it is" for them, be offensive to somebody reading their views? He's surely not imposing his views on anyone else.

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Love rarely follows logic. I've heard that line to many times in my adult life. I’ve never used that word "logic" in conjunction with finding a mate or establishing friendships, I would use love and “compatibility”. Don't take this personal because it's not meant towards you. But, those I’ve en

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HOw about a breakup of a love relationship? Assuming, (hate that word), the love relationship was established on like values, morals and desires the same applies. From time to time, a friend or two still socializes with old flings from years past, and I have no problem with that. My wife has n

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It is not always a core value thing I disagree.... When two people carry difference of opinion to the extent where the "friendship" is at stake, the subject matter has a core value or moral relationship. Over the years, I’ve choose my friends because their values, morals and lifestyles happened

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A true friend will respect your views and agree to disagree. I doubt Mary Matlin and James Carville make such demands upon each other. I doubt their marriage could survive if it did. The above is true. However, Mary and James are exact opposites, split down the middle on fundamental issues; a choice

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I withhold my opinions for a reason, because I am anything BUT open minded So Gid, given that you're not open minded and attempting to conceal that with neutrality, might you be trying to fancy everybody's good side for the wrong reasons? Funny thing about open minded people; they're mostly

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Be kind. Be safe. Be responsible. Haven't met a 2nd, 3rd, 5th or 7th grader that understands how to apply "be safe" or "be responsible" to them self. When and where I grew up "FAG" was a cigarette. <

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Excellent points CK.... It's sad social commentary even annoying a bit to know some just don't get it, and they call themselves adults.

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The one commonality we all have regardless of our life style differences, is our ability to get along in the social JU sand box of life. Having that as our core goal, and treating others as we like to be treated fosters a happy JU. Loose site of those ideals in favor of freedom of expression, the giant awakens and it's not pretty, as many who know me have said.

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