dharmagrl

dharmagrl

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I like eggs benedict for breakfast if i'm feeling really decadent...otherwise a soft-boiled egg and sourdough toast 'soldiers' to dip in it is my breakfast of choice. I lost 40 lbs last year, and 8 pant sizes. I just didn't eat. I had some stuff happen, I lost my appetite, and the weight just came off. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone tho....I nicknamed it the 'caffiene and nicotine' diet because I think that all I lived on for a while was

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No need to apologize, I didn't take it that you were holding yourself in higher esteem. I didn't, as I said, write this article with a specific ethnic group in my mind...however, I think that this, this discussion, is some what constructive...at least we know each others point of view now!

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When I came to SD I came with the same impression of Native Peoples that Jill had..I had the strong, proud spiritual warrior image in my head. I've seen what life 'on the rez' is like. I've seen homes with no running water, and living conditions worse than any I have seen anywhere, ever. I simply couldn't understand why people didn't want to leave, they were complaining about how bad things were, but yet they stayed there! (yesterday's r

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Now that I'm in the Air Force, P.T. is encouraged, but not enforced Then you're lucky, because it is here. Every squadron on this base has mandatory PT sessions now, usually twice a week. We see units running in formation all the time, and the gym is packed most mornings before the work day begins.<br

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further narrowed the number of people allowed to receive SSI disability benefits by requiring that drug addiction or alcoholism not be a material factor in their disability. Again, we can quote stats all we want to. The site address I gave you for disability information is the Blue Book for physi

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Well, Wise Fawn, we can quote stats all we want to. It doesn't make a difference to what we think and believe. I think that there are people manipulating the system because I've seen it, and you think that the welfare system is harsh and that everyone using it is honest and good because that's your experience. I've never claimed SSD, SSI, or TANF, so I think we'll just have to agree to disagree, don't you? I do think, having read the guideline

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Exactly, Jill. Some people don't want to help themselves, they're happy to maintain the status quo because they can. They don't HAVE to better themselves, to move on and be self supporting... The sites I got my info from are: http://www.state.sd.us/social/TANF/plan.htm You have to read the entire thing to find what i was talking about... ..and oops, I made a mistake! women with chldren under the age of 6 aren't exempt from the 60 m

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I wasn't talking about not seeking employment, Wise Fawn. I was talking about being exempt from the maximum 60 month period that one can remain on TANF. 'Actively seeking employment' can be classed as filling out applications for work, Wise Fawn. It doesn't mean that you're going to GET a job. I'm telling you, I know people who have played the system.... The food stamp allowance you quote is for a parent and 2 children, i.e. a family of 3

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Yeah, go red! How temporary do you want your hair color to be? If you want a wash- in -wash -out kinda deal I'd go with a spray -in kind, you can get them at drugstores. If you want something that lasts a bit longer (like 2 weeks or more) then 'Manic Panic' is the way to go. Be warned tho, if you're blonde you're gonna be stuck with the color...perhaps even permanently (not applicable for the spray- in kind)..and never, ever color yo

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i was just tickled pink to see my name on the list of nominees.....i didn't think anyone knew who i was or that anyone took an interest in what i wrote... ..but like jepel says, it really is a reward in itself just to be nominated!

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I don't know if you could call it concern, I was just being nosey really. How much you drink is your beeswax, you're a big girl.....I know I wouldn't have liked someone criticizing my drinking habits when I was your age (and saying that made me feel really quite old...I'm only 34) You and Muggaz (look up his blog if you don't recognize the name) would do well together, I think. Namsate.

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Are you suggesting that the efforts of assimilation should continue? That welfare dependency hasn't been created in large part due to your (and mine) government? That there are many reasons why encouraging Indians to get off the reservation is a bad idea, altogether? Nope, i'm not saying that at all. I

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They did something like that up here a few years ago. Took off Thursday night's prime time TV and replaced it with high school girls basketball. It caused quite a furor...I called the station to complain and they said "yeah, well, you're about the 1200th caller to complain" (now where I live that must have meant that EVERYONE who owned a TV set had called in!) The didn't do it again. On a different but related note, some idiot from Wyoming ca

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I forgot about gunpowder and Hoppes oil, those remind me of Dave too.... You went to basic at Ft Leonard Wood, Dynosaur? Dave went there for Military Police Investigator school a couple of years ago.

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Today I learned some things that I didn't know before...things that really pissed me off. I learned that in this state (SD) a family of 4 is eligible for $465 a month in food stamps. I don't (can't afford to) spend that much and there's 5 of us!!! Bear in mind that food stapms don't buy soap, paper goods, personal toiletries etc...so the whole amount is going on edible food! I also learned that women with kids who are

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Don’t people have better things to do with their time than read about our lives and essays? I feel so creeped out now… Like not only did they waste their time reading what we write but then they go and feel the need to REPLY to what we wrote… Yeah, well we can't all have lives as interesting and varied

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If in fact we are no longer a “Christian “ nation, then we need to stop imposing morality on everyone. ..and take 'In God we trust' off the currenty, and reshape the legal system so it's no longer founded on Biblical do's and dont's...basically, the country would have to literally start all over. Don't get me wrong, I agree with you...but this country is predominantly mono-theistic and some things just aint gonna happen.

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