Daily Love Tip #16
TALK, LISTEN, TALK, LISTEN, TALK, LISTEN........
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When you talk you are only repeating what you already know--but if you listen, you may learn something.
What a boost to your self-esteem to know that the one person in this world you value most is truly interested in your thoughts, opinions and feelings. The give-and-take of communication is the nourishment that causes a marriage to thrive and grow.
Never assume that you know what your spouse is thinking or feeling. Care enough to devote your undivided attention. Hear what is being said. Don't simply nod as you mentally formulate your next response. Few compliments surpass the tribute of your genuine interest. For even better results, try putting your spouse first. Reverse the order of this bit of advice to listen, talk, listen, talk, listen talk.......
PAY YOUR SPOUSE A TREMENDOUS COMPLIMENT--PAY ATTENTION!!
What a boost to your self-esteem to know that the one person in this world you value most is truly interested in your thoughts, opinions and feelings. The give-and-take of communication is the nourishment that causes a marriage to thrive and grow.
Never assume that you know what your spouse is thinking or feeling. Care enough to devote your undivided attention. Hear what is being said. Don't simply nod as you mentally formulate your next response. Few compliments surpass the tribute of your genuine interest. For even better results, try putting your spouse first. Reverse the order of this bit of advice to listen, talk, listen, talk, listen talk.......
PAY YOUR SPOUSE A TREMENDOUS COMPLIMENT--PAY ATTENTION!!