My Experience With Boys... However limited it may be.
The story of my infatuations with boys A, B, and C.
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wow... throughout the 1-2 years, i have had a lot of "crushes"... but three stood out from the rest, seeing as how I was infatuated with them for longer than a month. Each one really taught me something though. I have neglected to name each of the guys i plan on talking about, in the case they read this.... or if my friends who know them read this, ,to save embarassment, or whatever... just seems better this way.
Guy *A*: This guy I actually met online. while my mom didnt like this, i took things into my own hands, and met him anyway... but i was smart about it- i was in a public place with lots of people around. I met him at a sporting event, and i was talking to him when my mom came into the place and came up to me... she got suspicious and wanted to know why i was talking to a boy *ahh! a boy! god forbid!!*, and how i had met him. i lied, but she eventually figured it out.. anyway. i went with this guy to youth group (with parental-unit permission), and he came to my house and watched a movie with me. He also opened me up to different views on sexuality. NO , i didnt have sex with him, i didnt even kiss him, but we talked about that stuff a lot, and it was better to be open about things. Then one night he told me that he didnt want to be more than friends, but i thought that was really strange, since we were so close to dating. next day, i called him and hes like " well i like this friend of mine brandy, and im dating her now". That was my first heartbreak. The first time I ever cried over a boy- Quite an experience that one was. he taught me to take chances, take risks.
Boy *B*: This boy was the worst mistake ive ever made. lol! really! He graduated last year from the same high school that i am attending, and I honestly dont know why i even liked him. All he does is bowl... he doesnt work, ,or drive or do anything- hes actually very immature, seeing as he claims he has a rapping record deal, and he picks fights with sophomores. i really dont know why i liked him... the only way i could ever see him was by getting my ass down to the bowling alley to watch him bowl. how fun is that?? NOT VERY!! And, to top it off, even though i claimed he like me, he never showed it. he never came to see ME. He taught me to have standards- a guy has to actually want to see me, and they need to show affection. period.
Boy*C*: This boy probably taught me the most. I really liked this guy.. a lot! he was a friend of a friend named maria. when i first met boy *C*, we went to a movie near the mall with maria accompanying. we hung out a lot that day and got to know each other- it was a really good match. unfortunately, we rushed into things, and started to date way too early. One of the good things about this guy is that he gave me my first kiss. That was an interesting experience :-)we went on a few more dates, but it was really hard to keep communication. he was always working, so i couldnt call him on his cell phone. when he got home, he would always be online till all hours of the night, ,so i couldnt reach him there... (when he was home, ,his cell wasnt on.). The only way i could "talk" to him was by getting online and chatting with him- but he was always doing homework, and put me last. Thats okay, i understand the importance of work, and school, but after i would (occasionally) speak to him online, he would ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ask " so are you going to get online tonite?" its like he wouldnt even TRY to get in touch with me. This guy taught me to not take things so seriously, and to not rush things. good things come to those who wait, and our 'relationship', if you want to call it that, wasnt very good... although it WAS a learning experience.
Thanks for reading! have a good day!
Guy *A*: This guy I actually met online. while my mom didnt like this, i took things into my own hands, and met him anyway... but i was smart about it- i was in a public place with lots of people around. I met him at a sporting event, and i was talking to him when my mom came into the place and came up to me... she got suspicious and wanted to know why i was talking to a boy *ahh! a boy! god forbid!!*, and how i had met him. i lied, but she eventually figured it out.. anyway. i went with this guy to youth group (with parental-unit permission), and he came to my house and watched a movie with me. He also opened me up to different views on sexuality. NO , i didnt have sex with him, i didnt even kiss him, but we talked about that stuff a lot, and it was better to be open about things. Then one night he told me that he didnt want to be more than friends, but i thought that was really strange, since we were so close to dating. next day, i called him and hes like " well i like this friend of mine brandy, and im dating her now". That was my first heartbreak. The first time I ever cried over a boy- Quite an experience that one was. he taught me to take chances, take risks.
Boy *B*: This boy was the worst mistake ive ever made. lol! really! He graduated last year from the same high school that i am attending, and I honestly dont know why i even liked him. All he does is bowl... he doesnt work, ,or drive or do anything- hes actually very immature, seeing as he claims he has a rapping record deal, and he picks fights with sophomores. i really dont know why i liked him... the only way i could ever see him was by getting my ass down to the bowling alley to watch him bowl. how fun is that?? NOT VERY!! And, to top it off, even though i claimed he like me, he never showed it. he never came to see ME. He taught me to have standards- a guy has to actually want to see me, and they need to show affection. period.
Boy*C*: This boy probably taught me the most. I really liked this guy.. a lot! he was a friend of a friend named maria. when i first met boy *C*, we went to a movie near the mall with maria accompanying. we hung out a lot that day and got to know each other- it was a really good match. unfortunately, we rushed into things, and started to date way too early. One of the good things about this guy is that he gave me my first kiss. That was an interesting experience :-)we went on a few more dates, but it was really hard to keep communication. he was always working, so i couldnt call him on his cell phone. when he got home, he would always be online till all hours of the night, ,so i couldnt reach him there... (when he was home, ,his cell wasnt on.). The only way i could "talk" to him was by getting online and chatting with him- but he was always doing homework, and put me last. Thats okay, i understand the importance of work, and school, but after i would (occasionally) speak to him online, he would ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ask " so are you going to get online tonite?" its like he wouldnt even TRY to get in touch with me. This guy taught me to not take things so seriously, and to not rush things. good things come to those who wait, and our 'relationship', if you want to call it that, wasnt very good... although it WAS a learning experience.
Thanks for reading! have a good day!
