Somehow I don't see the universe escaping the bounds of logic, nothing has yet. It may seem weird at first once we get more answeres but it will make logical sense as we dive deeper into them.
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Ah, but logic is based on what we know. It's based on rules of what is and isn't possible. We know so little about the first moments of our universe (ie, after the big bang), and even less about what might have come 'before' it (if anything). This means that we can make all the logical arguments in the world, but that logic will be based on speculation. It's speculation based on what we are familiar with, but nonetheless it may very well not apply to the big bang. I agree with you - I can't comprehend the concept of 'nothingness' in this sense - I don't think anyone can. But again, an open mind means not writing off the unimaginable 
Our defintions of time are so premitive. Half of it is still based on sun going up and down and earth revolving around the sun. All Mayan and Egyptian techniques which aren't worth all that much when trying to really debate the idea of time.
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You're wrong that Mayan and Egyptian techniques aren't worth much when talking about time. Yes, their methods weren't as precise as our methods today, but that is how science progresses - from less accurate to more accurate. I could define a standard measure of time to be the average period between two of my heartbeats at rest. If I measure time with it standing on Earth, then get on a spaceship and fly to Alpha Centauri at close to the speed of light and measure time using the same method, I will have a fairly accurate measure of time for both situations. And as long as I have all the data corresponding to my space flight, I would be able to accurately compare both time periods. Likewise, if I decide to use the rotation of Earth as a standard measure of time, I could do the same thing (assuming I have the tools on the spaceship to continue observing the Earth). The accuracy of your standard measure of time only depends on its consistency. The rotation of the Earth is slowing down, and so to maintain an accurate measure of time we have to compensate for it; and that is why the scientific definition of a second is defined using a much more consistent measure. To quote from wikipedia:
"The second is the duration of 9 192 631 770 periods of the radiation corresponding to the transition between the two hyperfine levels of the ground state of the cesium 133 atom."
And, I also have to point out that the issues with measuring time are identical to the issues with measuring space. Time runs differently in different reference frames, but space compensates. If you know how to convert between the time in two different reference frames, you can figure out how to convert between spatial measurements without having to make any observations or anything, and vice versa. In relativity, there is something called the Invariant Interval. Time and space both contribute to it, and the Invariant Interval is constant in all reference frames. It is constant because even though time and space change with reference frame, they change in complimentary ways.
[quote who="love9sick" reply="11" id="2086778"]Honestly the only way time exists is when events are spread out. The interval between these events are the units of time. Light is weightless which is why it can travel exactly at the instant of time. All events happen instantly relative to the speed of light.
Time exists everywhere, all the time, whether events are spread out in time or not. It's actually much, much more complex than that - because the concept of simultaneity somewhat false apart. If you stand at a train station and drop two identical balls from identical heights, you will observe those two balls hit the ground simultaneously. But if I am in a train, speeding through the station at 0.9 times the speed of light, I will see the balls hit the ground at different times. Simultaneity is dependent on the observer. However, I could sit on my train and, knowing my speed compared to the station, decide to calculate when you saw the balls hit the ground. So, the point I'm getting at is, saying that "the only way time exists is when events are spread out", I guess you're right - except there is always some reference frame (really, an infinite number of them), in which the events do not occur simultaneously.
We are going much slower, our events take "time" One second is just a SI unit of measrement. In realtiy it is nothing but a value we chose for the speed that we are moving at through time.
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You are right, although I think accidentally!
The definition I quoted above is actually incomplete. It is based on the resonance frequency of caesium on the Earth's geoid. This means that, if you are on a spaceship moving away from Earth very quickly, and you measure the resonance frequency of Caesium 133 to determine a second, you would have to make appropriate relativistic corrections (for both the velocity and gravitational dilation) in order to determine the actual SI second. So yes, the second is a value we choose for the speed we are moving through time, but it is 100% convertible to any other reference frame. My point here is that we did not invent time in any way, shape, or form. Just like deciding on a standard spatial distance like the meter does not mean we invented space, deciding on a standard temporal interval does not mean we invented time.
I can't even begin to explain how light bends space, I don't know, my ideas could be all together wrong simply because I can't understand this.
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That's the problem with a lot of modern physics. It's extraordinarily difficult to understand, even conceptually. If you understand the mathematics behind it, it makes things it a lot easier to understand; but even for people with a background in math it can take quite a while - and lots of effort - to get through it all. For the average person, whose mathematical education largely ends after high school, that's pretty much out of the picture. Sadly, I think that's one reason why fewer and fewer people are getting into the mathematical sciences.