Bobbi...

My hero!

from JoeUser Forums
To be safe we lose our chance at ever knowing.

I remember I told Bobbi that very same quote only a few days ago….

She called me and wanted to talk of course.

I don’t think she would mind me telling anybody, but she likes Jake, a lot. She likes him more than anything. And as many of my friends well know…. They are in extremely different “social” classes. He’s the preppy basketball/football/attractive/every girl wants to be on his arm type of guy. And Bobbi is a drama chick/band nerd/beautiful girl who talks to everyone. She actually had the NERVE to give him a note telling him all of her feelings for him and how she’s liked him since elementary…. And he actually talked to her at his car after one of his basketball games! I’m not going to get into the “whole” conversation but it went pretty smoothly.

Then, she called him and talked to him about homecoming yestarday…. And she asked him if he would go with her and he said maybe!!! I was so excited for her when she told me that!!!!

Until…. She told me she asked Jake if he thought Justin would go with me and Jake said he just might!

I don’t know…. It is going to be the first person who asks me that I am going to go with. I am not going to sit around and wait like I thought I was going to before.

I wanted to go with Alex… but he has plenty of other girls who love him and doesn’t want to give me another chance anyway. So again… not holding my breath.

Just for everyone’s information…. I’m not angry with him or anything like that. I have decided to approach this the Zen way…. Adopt, Adapt, Adept....

And the Buddhist approach.... this is happening for a reason.


Anyways…. I am so proud of my Bobbi! She is my hero! I could NEVER in a trillion years build up my nerves to do that!


Good luck Bobbi! We’ll be seeing him tomorrow!
Sam
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Is the approach because you're turning Buddhist?

Love isn't something that makes you go to a dance with them. Love is... what love is. Loving you, loving anyone shouldn't make them want to take you to a dance.

Alex
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
That is definently not what i was trying to portray.

And i understand, love isn't something to make someone go out and dance with you.... She asked him to go with her because she really likes him and she wants to spend time with him.


Love is the most beautiful thing.... but it also means never walking away.

Sam
Galactic Civilizations III
Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yeah, I can't believe Bobbi actually asked him! I'm so proud of her. But she never told me that Justin would possibly go with you. But that's good, i guess. I think that Bobbi and Jake would make a cute couple.

~carebear~
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well I am glad you guys have somebody in mind you have going with and I am pround of you.
Me well I will be going dateless for a while b.c mine is takin and I don't when of even if he will be there any more

Stacey
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Love is the most beautiful thing.... but it also means never walking away.


Incorrect, sometimes for Love you must just do that.
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top

 

Is the approach because you're turning Buddhist?

How do you turn Buddhist?    Buddhism is a philosophy.  You can follow it.  You could eventually become a Buddha (I've never met a real Buddha).  But you can't "turn Buddhist".

And the Buddhist approach.... this is happening for a reason.

Everything does happen for a reason.  But, you need to learn to understand why it happens and what your role is in how it happens.  Sometimes the reason why something happens is that you did not act when you should, or acted when you shouldn't have.  Learning to balance Yin and Yang is not easy, nor is the road to enlightenment.

 

Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
Incorrect, sometimes for Love you must just do that.


Trina is right. I have to agree with her on this one Sam.

~carebear~