Nobody is Perfect, Except For You

from JoeUser Forums
I'm sitting here talking to Shaun. Yay! Fun, fun. lol. Actually it's quite interesting talking to him. I love you Shaun! lol.

I know I picked on guys in my whole virginity ariticle, but I'm kinda going to pick on them again. But it's just something that has been on my mind for awhile now. So I figured I'd share.

So you know when you have a boyfriend......he tells you that you're the most beautiful thing in the world and all that other nice stuff. Well what about when they break up with you? Do they still think that you're the most beautiful thing? Or what about when they start going out with another girl? Are they still going to think that you're the most beautiful thing? Or will they tell the girl that they are now dating that she's the most beautiful thing in the world? If you think one girl is, yet you move on to another girl that you've seen when you were going out with the previous girl, are you going to change your mind just like that? How could you? This really confuses me.

I guess you could say the same thing about girls though too. If they think that their boyfriend is the hottest thing out there. Then they break up with him and think another guy is.

A thing that Shaun and I were talking about too that has me wondering. Not really wondering, but just thinking about it. Can you really like someone and be able to think that they're so "perfect"? Is it possible even though nobody in this world is perfect? When we were talking about it, it also reminded me of that cheesy saying, " I looked up the word "perfect" in the dictionary, and your picture was beside it." I don't know why, but it did. I guess perfect is an opinion though. Just like thinking a person is cute, beautiful, etc. I have found out that Shaun and I both share the same "problem". It's kinda freaky. lol. We both have a person we would consider "perfect" I guess. I figure for me....maybe it's because I read too many books that always have two people falling in love in them. I don't know.....

~carebear~
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top

cb, after 6 years of marriage, i have to tell you that no, i don't think you can love someone and believe that they're perfect - but i do think it's possible to find someone who is perfect for you and accept them flaws and all.

mig XXX

Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
I agree, migs.

The perfection thing I can see....even though they may have flaws you overlook them and they are absolutely "perfect" in your eyes....I know it all too well....

~Zoo
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yea....I guess you just look past there imperfections. But I always like to look at it as their imperfections are what makes them perfect.

~carebear~
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
cb, after 6 years of marriage, i have to tell you that no, i don't think you can love someone and believe that they're perfect - but i do think it's possible to find someone who is perfect for you and accept them flaws and all.


I agree with that.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yes, I also agree with Mig. But I don't think I said what I wanted to say how I wanted to say it. I don't know. I kinda cofused myself. lol.

~carebear~
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
carebear: I think this is a really interesting article.

I think we sometimes see people through the "beer goggles of love"...and things that would be annoying to other people become endearing to us...of course, it can go the opposite way, too...stuff that we think is cute at first can become annoying as hell.

Of course, some guys (and girls) just say whatever it takes to get into your pants, too.
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
That is true...WOW!!!!

AWESOME ARTICLE

~live life to the fullest~
Ns38
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
never mind cb, i am very good at confusing myself, too !.

and it's nice to 'see' you

mig XXX
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
Ah... hormones. Don't they just play havoc?
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
Perfect is a term relative to one's own opinion. Someone may think his/her other is the most beautiful thing in the world and, speaking from experience, split up and see every glaring flaw. You wouldn't want your partner to say "You're so beautiful, but this one woman I saw today had the biggest tracts of land you'll ever see". Superlatives are tough to use when describing your loved one.

A lot of what we say is relative. Perfect, weird, regular, normal, etc. The list goes on.
Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
"You're so beautiful, but this one woman I saw today had the biggest tracts of land you'll ever see".


Heh, say that and your balls go bye-bye.

Nice Holy Grail reference BTW, Andy.

~Zoo
Reply #12 from JoeUser Forums Top
and it's nice to 'see' you


And it's always nice to 'see' you too.


Thanks for the comments everyone!

~carebear~
Reply #13 from JoeUser Forums Top
I agree with you ash. Can anyone truly fall out of love?
Reply #14 from JoeUser Forums Top
All I have to say about what you said though, is that there's always another side to the story. Sometimes people don't really even mean a word of it and are just passing the time until the person they really like comes to them. It's not pretty but I've seen it and it's happened to me. It sucks and no... I don't think you do just change your mind. I think you really do like others have said, and just see the flaws as bonuses.

Sarah says she has all these flaws and honestly I love her more for the "flaws". I totally don't see them as such and it goes the other way too.

You may not fall out of love but then again, you may not know when you fill in either.

Capt. over and out!
Reply #15 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yeah, I know sometimes people don't really mean what they say. I've been there before. And it's not pretty. But I do believe that there are some out there. I like to look at their imperfections and find what is perfect about their imperfections. Because everybody has different imperfections, that's what makes people unique and different from other people.

~carebear~