wuxiaomao

wuxiaomao

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champas: ummm that's the whole point..to not be preachy about something unless you have been through it..so yeah you missed the point a little Kingbee: Thanks!! And you are right, it took a lot of guts to write it..people I know in real life will be reading this and I have never really explained why I tend to be quiet in opinionated circles these days.

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ummm that's the whole point..to not be preachy about something unless you have been through it..so yeah you missed the point a little Kingbee: Thanks!! And you are right, it took a lot of guts to write it..people I know in real life will be reading this and I have never really explained why I tend to be quiet in opinionated circles these days.

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ummm that's the whole point..to not be preachy about something unless you have been through it..so yeah you missed the point a little

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Maybe in your research you should almost pin point certain things that make "emotional fuckwits" that way you can side step them, instead of calling all of us the same thing please refer to my article, "I punched Frank today" and if that doesn't suffice, I have more examples. I know <TABLE cellpa

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Like a woman scorned....I am just interested to find out if there are others out there who are tired of the shit men bring our way and expect us to deal..Are there any people who are fighting back and giving men a taste of their medicine or is it just me? what did he do to you? did you let him get away with it? If not what did you do to him? Ps. thi

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... Hell I'll run a register or make BIg Mac's all day right now, I'm that desperate to have income... then why don't you? I am not being mean..I am just trying to let you see that you really need to stop living at your friend's girlfriend's place and start living your life Even if it means you gotta

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sorry but I don't need a prince, just a reliable cock that comes with no baggage, no girlfriends, no exes and no wives! You all should read my article "I punched Frank today" it offers a bit of insight into what I am up against here!!lol

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I met him 2 years ago before I moved to China and he is a beautiful man, he is just like the way he writes in person. He did a number on my ego that night because I almost ran into him as I was parking so I got to talk to him before and after and the rest of the night he kept addressing me by name!! Please let me know what you think about his latest book, Unfortunately I live in China and cannot get it here:( !!! Just leave a message on my b

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Today was one of those “It’s too beautiful to go outside today so why pretend we are sun worshippers, lets stay home and watch a “sex and the city marathon” instead!” type of day. Which is exactly what me and my friend Sean ended up doing for the rest of the day. China has a booming industry of black market DVDs which explains why we already own the complete Frien

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when I was young we used to go "Bunny bashing" a popular sport for horny pubescent youth in my country (Zimbabwe). However, one of the popular leisure sports in China is off course pingpong. They actually have permanant tables set up in public parks and every convinient store is well stocked with gum, condoms and pingpong balls

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Near my house I have a variety of fast food joints to choose from for a quick fix, one of them off course is Mcdonalds' and then there is KFC, a noodle place, a dog meat place, a hot pot place(sort of the big daddy of fondues). I came to China for a variety of reasons that don't make sense anymore, now I am staying to learn Chinese and to write about my experiences here, hopefully someday I will be able to pull off a book deal. I wa

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The value of words is severely undermined in China. You hear things like, "my English is not very well," "how big are you?" "I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters..(mind you this is a scientific impossibility in a country that has a well monitored one child policy, what they really mean is, I have 5 cousins and that their parents were born way before the Cultural revolut

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17. I left my heart at the pawn shop For he liked to belong to many, cheaply He liked to be used, again and again Squeezed, prodded, bargained for Devalued, evalued, bartered for He liked to be special to someone For a while Till they moved on To anot

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comment not directed at you, scroll up and there is always the possibility their efforts will succeed in convincing china to reconsider its policy. its directed to whoever made the above quoted comment, my frustration lies in the fact that people often make conclusions on what they feel strongly about

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The motives for abortion run deeper than just moral issues here. Remember there is a one child policy and since the joining of the WTO the gap between the rich and the poor has well become a gorge. The point being, its not just a moral issue here and as a result, well tried and tested theories that have worked in the western world will not, WILL NOT work here. A very frustrating issue that I cannot stress enough for you people who live in the west

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there is always the possibility their efforts will succeed in convincing china to reconsider its policy. lets step out of the liberal box for a minute and consider the fact that China is NOT a democratic republic...things just don't run that way here..what China wants is what China will do..China does

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good job on the editing, you really have something going on there!!! I am impressed by your style. I find it difficult to bring an account to an interesting close, you know true accounts never really have a true conclusion and one has to make that up to keep the audience hooked. I wonder if you could check some of my work. I am curious to know what you think? thanks!! I'll watch this space for more of your stories!

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Hey I'm wuxiaomao which is actually chinese for 5 small cat a very loose translation of my English name which is just Kat. I am also new here (just a few weeks) and am using this space as a launch pad for my writing about life as a foreigner in China. It's true there is a lot of teenage angst here..which does come off as rather cute at times...sigh...those were the days of zits and homework!! I am 25 and happily single..if such a thing exists! <

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I use whats around me! Living in China, I am surrounded by amazing imagery that's alien to me and I always try hard to visualise it in words "how can I describe it to someone who will never be here, how can i make them be here with me?" type of thing. "the recovery room" I wrote after visiting a hospital in Mozambique...possibly the worst in world! And "he wasn't a side show" I wrote about a guy I met in Thailand, a nonchalant vendor, if you can i

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