Cordelia

Cordelia

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Ah Dev, you are too right both about the cycle and about victimhood. Some people think there is great power in being a victim (both in life and on the 'net). But that power can only be derived when the supposed 'oppressor' actually gives a hoot about the victim. It often doesn't happen that way, and cries of victimization rarely receive the "I'm so sorry, I'll be more thoughtful next time" response the victim is looking for.

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It seems like it depends on what the kids were doing. From the article: "We may never learn exactly what happened," Ms. Weingarten said. "We think what happened is there were paper towels strewn in the boys' bathroom. Some people think there was something under the paper towels; some people think there wasn't. But the bottom line is this: Kids should not be cle

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I hear you Mason. Depression, no matter what the cause, is one of those insidious things that can cause you to do things you really shouldn't do. And those things can seem so logical and necessary at the time. There are supposed to be things you can do to combat this, like special light-bulbs that mimic the sunlight. I don't know much about those, but it might be helpful to get one. I don't know, maybe tanning beds mimic sunlight? Might be worth looking into, even th

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Here are the first pictures of my new niece. Here's an odd thing: I was talking to our PR guy in Canada via IM yesterday. I mentioned that my sister had a baby that morning and could we send out a press release (haha). He said, "Really? My sister had a baby too". Seemed very odd at the time, although I'm sure a statistician wouldn't have been surprised. His sister's baby was over 10 pounds... that's surprising. Anyway, welcome to planet Earth Tom's new nephew

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Thanks Mano and Avanti! DA - I like Tia Tistin! And I think I'm going to like being part of the Tia club.

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Awww, congratulations Auntie Kristin! Is this your first niece? Thanks Dharma, yep first one. I just wish I wasn't 2000 miles away. I won't even get to see the baby until I go out to visit in a month or two. Ah well. Amazon.com delivers.

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You? Snap and snarl? Hehe...you just don't see me on a daily basis. You'll have to post pics when you get some You bet!

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Interesting quiz! You scored as Cultural Creative. Cultural Creatives are probably the newest group to enter this realm. You are a modern thinker who tends to shy away from organized religion but still feels as if there is something greater than ourselves. You are very spiritual, even if you are not religious. Life has a meaning outside of the rational. Cultural Creative - 88% Existentialist - 69% Postmode

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Thanks Doc! *shrug* I just thought Snarla was funny. Should have been my name, perhaps, as I tend to snap and snarl a lot.

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My sister gave birth to an 8 pound 2 ounce girl born December 6, 2005 at roughly 8 am Mountain time. They forwent naming her Snarla (which would have been my pi

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>> We've been talking about this on IRC so I won't go over that again. I'll just say that I agree that it sucks when you think you can't count on your friends. Although...it kind of sucks more not to have any.

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Daaaang! That is some serious stuff! I must say, I was quite pleased to hear that you gave those 2 boys what-for when they tried to hijack your cab. I gave a little cheer. Now if only the woman who hit you could have been punished in some way... Glad you are 'safe' and relatively unhurt.

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-What movie makes the saddest? "Jack the Bear". I can't even remember if it was a good movie or not but it is one of the only movies I can think of that made me cry like a baby. -Which one gives you the warm, romantic fuzzies? Do made for TV movies count? "Pride and Prejudice", the BBC mini-series. -What movie makes your tummy hurt from all the laughing? "Raising Arizona". Love that movie. <img src="../images/smiles/bigsmile.gi

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Well, she still has to register as a sex offender, has 3 years house arrest, etc., so they aren't totally letting it slide. However...she's too pretty to serve jail time??? I've never heard this used as an excuse before. And why should it be an excuse? I agree with you, if jail time is the norm then she should be in jail! We should not treat women differently from men. The insanity plea? Too pretty for jail? Plah.

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The points system was recently changed so you only get one point for replying to your own article, so you need not concern yourself with 'points whoring'. This information was double checked with T-man, but I have not tried it myself to find out. However, I'm all for replying in whatever way you want. I don't find it cheesy to try and respond to everyone in a single comment, but I do find them hard to wade through when they become long. I chalk that up to my own laziness. <img src="../images/smi

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We went out at 11 last night only to discover that people had begun lining up at 8 am that day for their chance to get a system. Plah! We have no desire to wait in line for a whole day in order to buy one. Although, now I begin to wonder if I'll get one before Christmas. Hmmm. Maybe I should pay some kid to save me a place in line next time.

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Tex what a great article. I was thinking today about posting something about appearances too, and maybe I still will, but this is a great insightful article. You get a cookie. I never realized that I create a mental picture of people I only talk to online, yet I am usually surprised when I see a picture of them so apparently I had some thought in my head as to what they looked like. And you'll note I chickened out of posting an actual picture of me on the frappr.com/joeuser

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I thought this was the best Harry Potter movie ever, but that isn't saying much considering what I thought of the first few movies. It certainly did have some action and some funny moments and some quite sad ones. Not to get too off topic of course... <TD clas

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