it's ok. at least the disappointment was INSTANT.
mignuna
nicky, your point about educators is a very good one. the "one size fits all" type of schooling didn't do it for me, either. my lack of conformity at school did me no permanent harm in terms of career success, etc ... but at the time it seemed like the end of the world. thanks for your comments, feel free to snoop around some more. mignuna.
you're right, edmund. around 22 things got better for me as well. but the 13-21 was awful. thanks for commenting.
trinitie and dan, it is MY opinion. i hated being young. i wasn't asking for help, or to have my mind changed. what i think you two are trying to say is you're coping fine with being young. good for you, and i mean that sincerely. but you could be a little more secure about it. i'm not going to defend my opinion. i didn't question you, or young people in general, with my article. i stated an OPINION. your reply may have very easily caused offence. free specch is fine with me,
being young is horrible. it's like: here, have a firm, healthy body, an enquiring mind and limitless potential; but temper it with the fact that nobody thinks your emotions are real, you have no authority whatsoever, and you have no voice of any consequence to the "grown-ups". you can have that. i hated being young and i've never for a second wanted to turn back the clock. the paradox of youth was the worst i ever encountered, and i'm glad it's over. even from the vast distance of
Reply By: PoetPhilosopherPosted: Saturday, February 07, 2004>>> no part of the body is designed solely for pleasurable purposeswhat about the brain ? i think the brain is used for other stuff, too. ;)
my attention span is unreliable. it is also dependant only on MY level of interest in the current happening/ and/or it’s events/participants. how rude. anyway, as a result, many inconvenient things happen to me, which probably serves me right. i could avoid most of them if i took my own advice, but i don’t. here it is anyway: 10 things the attention-span-challenged person should NEVER do: 1. assume you didn't put your keys in the toilet 2. buy anything now that y
i function still with bits blown off much like a cartoon mouse ... so when i took my clothes off it brought down the bloody house i rattle when i swallow as i wear a housewife hat it doesn’t suit me very much but I'LL GET OVER THAT
ugh ! what a fine combination you two boys make, jesse & muggaz. thank goodness you don't live in the same country and can't form a club ;)
that's just what i mean, muggaz, pet. we humans think we know better and we make a competition out of what should be a natural process. it would all be much easier if we just did what we're best at and were honest with it. lol ... as if THAT could ever happen
i love you hit me buy me a new dress ? push me over put your hands on me get me all dirty you can even make me cry if you want come back in three days okay
sensitive new age guys have their place, bless ‘em. i’m sure there are LOTS of women who adore their male partners’ capacity to “understand” their “feelings” and suffer “sympathetic” labour-pains ... ... i just don’t happen to be one of them. it’s all good to be "into" what makes your woman tick, but frankly, men who know more about my menstrual cycle than i do scare me. i like to think of it this way: need-to-know basis. i laugh out loud when my hubby misinterpre
the war is over and we won. hooray. there are rules now. men have to treat women as equals. uh-huh. i get that. but has the fact that men and women are NOT equals, and are not supposed to be equals, escaped everyone else ?. this planet is populated primarily with dual-gendered species, and gender-typical standard behaviour is observable in all animals excepting the human one ... ... who knows better. so i am supposed to be a new woman. i have won the right to leave th
the world is full of divorced parents who ruin their “first” family and then threaten the world record on disastrous attempts at making another one. and whilst i have never been overly fond of the familial gathering, i like them even less now i don’t KNOW who i’m related to. i have step-siblings. adopted siblings. half-siblings. i have some twice
i feel sorry for men. but don't tell anyone. (especially the men themselves). it's the original man-as-hunter vs. woman-as-nester tribal conflict. you just have to look over any suburban fence, any saturday, to see what our so-called equality has spawned: a tragic diorama of bitter
the blonde follows me into the bathroom. pleading for her life. i regard her dispassionately. i am decided. i put the gloves on. her eyes widen in alarm (it takes much longer than i expect and is very messy) i am sobbing. scrubbing. rose tainted water. terrible stains. but i hated her ... and now that she's dead i can breathe again i am cal
this is an auto-generated thing - i just entered names, etc, so don't be offended - it says bad things about me too !. you can make your own version by using the link. i did it, and here is the result (with advance apologies to sam for well, you'll see what happens) ... LOSER TURD MAFIA “BIG BROTHER” Day 1 - jesse admits straight away that he doesn't like the look of sam. He says she looks like a lesbian. As it turns out, pam is in fact the only lesbian in the house, alt
... i was going to ask how you were going with amanda. i see there is no need. ;). if you put her on the spot, i think she will deny she would date you. it's too confronting. give her the opportunity to relax and be comfy with you and then kiss her unexpectedly. (kiss. not attack). hehe. if the total worst happens and she slaps you, at least you a) have your answer and b) got to kiss her. you can also take it back if you have to. just make some silly excuse. but once you SAY s
well, trust YOU to be in a good mood today and defuse my rant, muggaz :). but yes, we are seen as racist simpletons and it is a shame because, as you say, most of us are very decent people. it's a shame that our press coverage and our prime minister (john howard - aka the muppet) speak FOR us ... badly. "v"
muggaz, lovely ... how revolting life is. i as usual have no idea what the solution is. (if i did, my username would be "off the mark uninvited advice", and i'd be saying stuff like "you must find your inner wounded child"). i instead will say this: i've learned to live with the fact that my wayward brain has decided to take the "scenic" emotional path through life, and the best i can do is cherish the people who love me and don't mind or even NOTICE that i sometimes wake up on another
muggaz, pet. how nice of you to stop by. i'm concerned after jills' advice above that i may be encouraging people to be careless about this stuff. so i should add that a) i represented myself honestly as a FRIEND for a year, and we were/are both partnered so there was never any suggestion of that stuff. b) our major common interest was animals ... specifically dogs (of which i was accompanied by two, one of which was my hubbys' bull terrier) and c) i haven't done this before, and don't plan on
The media portrayal of Australia as some sunburned expanse largely populated with extremist animal experts, bush-tucker men, and large, life-threatening animals at every turn is getting very old. Ditto the inference that the remaining populace consume only beer, are always happy, work only seasonally, walk around almost naked and speak another langu
joe ... again you make me laugh !. thanks for making me glad i'm a redhead ;) "v"
if, like, totally forced, i have been known to take our guests to see tourist attractions . (i hate this, but nobody cares) ... which is how i recently found myself, (struck almost numb with boredom en route to see some THING), fixated upon the ha
... woman, you are so HARD on yourself !. you wear three different "hats" everyday in the same home and still keep it balanced. the fact is, you're a rarity in this selfish world: you're prepared to follow through and actually RAISE the babies you birthed, and this time of your life is all about them. to you, that also means you are prepared to make homelife very easy for your "outside employed" husband. in 15 years' time when you look at your adolescent sons with pride, knowing that YO