Well hello :)I'm back...three months later. Bit sick of work....been finishing the PhD...all hail the Doctor:) Have also been seeing someone for about hmmm two months and have managed...as per usual...to get myself in a bit of a pickle. Gee...how abnormal! (NOT!!). Ok....where to start. Well I get this email around the beginning of August...it starts out
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You are right Sal they don't want your pity. Prostitution is the OLDEST and I mean oldest work in the world. Until we stop seeing sexuality purely within the realm of "romance" and love and realise that aside from breathing the sex drive represents man's and woman's single most powerful driving urge we are going to continue to have to hear these kinds of debates. (it is actually a biological imperative the need to have sex). That we continually see
Hey you:) Thank you for that...trust me when I tell you I am prolly the most positive person I know. However, divorce tends to teach you precisely what you don't want and that ad WAS completely tongue in cheek. I will keep your advice in mind however should I ever decide to place one:) Cheers Cin
I should add to this CS " if you think VB means visual basic you need a holiday in Oz...quicksmart!!!" Cin
sorry couldnt' help myself...in Australia crabs just make you think...YUM....
Yeah....DINNER'S ON!!!! Cin:)
Hello all! Barricaded in my office when I SHOULD be marking assignments I am taking a bit of a break because I was sitting here contemplating YET AGAIN my single state (Jeez I can hear you all saying...get a life Cin" and besides I have a new computer and its a beauty to work on:) I have been contemplating the whole phenomena of the personal ad. Prolly because I had
my blog site is actually called "kissing the frog" because that is ALSO what I"m doing alot of!! Cheers cin
hehe..'when the student is ready, the teacher will appear'....I needed to hear that this morning! Thanks! You are very welcome:) (don't know exactly what I said but I'm glad it was helpful) Cin
I like the comment on the Aussie contingent we are a force to be reckoned with:) Look girlfriend I didn't see the article in question but its a hell of a lot safer to do it here on Joe than it is at say...WORK... where I have been known to lose the plot, dummy and my mind all in a space of five minutes. And its a big person who can say I"M SORRY IF FUCKED UP PLEASE FORGIVE ME....you'll be right mate... *just an aside...Adelaide is freezing..
Oh and forgot to add that this means all the rightwinger fanatical Christian types who want to save me from my sluttishness and Buddhism and eventual burning in hell aren't reaching me anyway....AHHH SATISFACTION:) Cin
Muggaz baby and dharma girl and others: teaching university you get exposed to alot of rather interesting ideas in colleagues and students. Unless its presented to me in an assigned paper and they are completely off the bloody topic, wall, planet I check to see if its well argued and mark accordingly. Same here...let people say what they will...this is the "ether" they aren't in your lounge room in your face close enough to check their dental work.<
Sammy: YOUR WOMAN???? what is that??? Warning warning warning....calling me "woman" or saying "my woman" in any context will result in you NEVER EVER getting laid again as long as you live!!!
A truer word was never spoken:) So where the hell are you anyway??? The US of A?? (grin) Cheers Cin
Thanks my boy:) We do our best NOT to be boring... Cheers Me
Oooo can't help myself must put in a comment. Muggsy little man...it isn't that all chicks are retarded as you so gallantly put it...but women have been socialised to respond a certain way. I agree with you, women seem to like assholes but it works the other way. I am as you described a nice intelligent woman I wouldn't go so far as to say beautiful but I am not a troll either. And guys don't seem to know what to do with me. If you aren't chasing t
Hello all!~ I have risen from the PhD morass to contribute to my blog...have just had an interesting couple of weeks. Where to start....ok...one Friday a couple of weeks ago I'd had a long day and decided to drop into a bar on the way home from work for one drink, felt like a bloody mary. So I get talking to this guy, seems nice...we'll call him Don and we
thanks for the nice comments guys...new article coming soon have been face down in the PHD.... cinnamonstone
Or don't concentrate on finding "someone" at all girl....just concentrate on yourself there is a hell of alot to be said for giving yourself some single time out... cinnamonstone
Listen girl I know it all seems a bit bleak at the moment it WILL get better. When my sister died and 3 weeks later I found out my husband (now ex) was running around I didn't know how I was going to survive. But you do and it calms down. If your defacto partner is not willing or able to talk to you about the future of your relationship if you can do so...do so. I always find what you imagine is often worse than the outcome, I try and imagine the w
I just re-read my last post from the 18th the one where I was obviously high on orgasm hormones:) Sometimes I reckon my punnani moves into the space where my brain is supposed to be. Rob and I had a few discussions over the last three weeks or so... well more than a few...lets just say I got hit with a reality stick...really hard. I'd like to know if any of
Sigh. I've been absent for the last little bit...(a collective sigh of gratitude is heard across blog-land...thankfulness for that absence:)) Well dear readers in the ether it didn't fucking work! It ended two weeks ago. Was I sad? Yes....but mostly I was relieved. No shit and I kid you not. I think relief was the over-riding emoti(con)on.:) Funny thing when y
I think you are more or less on the right track. Its really important, especially when there is something like infidelity involved to work out, to the best of your ability WHY you chose to take that particular action...without blaming the other person...as in "well I was unfaithful because she/he etc" And yes it will heal, it WILL take time my marriage when bum up after 16 years..infidelity as well...his not mine. It isn't a matter of blaming yours
Migsy my darlin' : this one always interests me. Like I am prone to say "noone lands in bed with their gear off knickers around their ankles and wonders how the fuck they got there in the first place" its a PROCESS. I loved the "crawl up his leg line". Its so true...its like somehow our vagina's have a life of their own, we have NO say they just go ahead and do what they want. I too am in "control" of my vagina....and that sometimes includes let
Migs: great article....though I think somewhat differently...not sure how I think...where abouts are you in Oz mate? Cheers cinnamonstone