I've been getting up at 5am to get some play time in before work and away from the kids and girlfriend. This game is causing me some considerable fatigue and pain :) That said, I haven't finished a full game yet - I keep starting over, ashamed at how badly I'm messing stuff up. I've got some empty house time tonight though and I'm going to go get lost in space.
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The ships do tend to just sit ther and trade shots, if you leave them alone. Personally I think it makes a lot more sense to grab those fleets and move them. Drag the attackers into the firing arcs of your orbiting Gaus cannons, lead them to a different phase lane where you have a new fleet heading in, and so on. It's entirely possible to get really involved in a fleet battle and move things around to bring in flanking, fake retreats and so on.
They are kinda mouse like aren't they.
With a name like xboxxer, I'm surprised he stuck it out for 6 hours ;) Seriously though, as so many others have pointed out, this is a real time 4x game, not a tank rush arcade experience. For those that enjoy the 4x genre, taking hours, even days to build the perfect empire is key - it's like tackling a 100,000 piece jigsaw puzzle. It's supposed to take a long time.