dharmagrl

dharmagrl

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I've been up all night, sitting with a patient. After a hair raising drive along some dark and icy roads I got home and to bed after 5 am, but I didn't really sleep. I dozed, thinking about how I have to go to the store, clean the house, do laundry and run a bunch of general errands today. I didn't get enough sleep the night before last either, so I'm literally running on fumes today. Dave knows that and is being gentle with me...hopefully that'll la

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I had planned to sit down this evening and write responses to your comments, but I've been called to go and sit vigilance with a patient overnight. I'll come back tomorrow when I have more time (and have had some sleep) and am able to give each of your comments the attention they deserve. I'm going to try some techniques that I learned at the conference on Wednesday on my patient this evening. I'll let you know how they work....or not.&nb

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“I hope that my child, looking back on today, remembers a Mother who had time to play. Children grow up while you are not looking, there will be years ahead for cleaning and cooking. So quiet now, cobwebs, dust go to sleep, I'm rocking my baby, And babies don't keep” I don't know who wrote it, but I've tried to live my life as a mom with that in mind. My house is never filthy dirty, but sometimes it's untidy....and when it's untidy it's be

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They served honorably, and weighed the evidence they had at their disposal. I used to think that too. I was slightly incredulous that they found him not guilty, but I thought that perhaps they were privy to some evidence that we the general public did not have. However, when I saw them at partying it up with the man they had acquit

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*the following is the conversation I would like to have with the members of the jury that acquitted OJ Simpson of the murder of his wife, Nicole Brown, and her friend, Ron Goldman. It's a representation of how I feel, so if you're offended by it...well, that's just too bad.* I'm sure that most of you have heard about OJ's 'confession' to the murders of his wife and Mr Goldman by now. The majority of the civilised world knows about it, and a good deal of us are saying 'we TO

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Unfortunately, Mason, this country is ruled by minorities. All it takes is for one or two people to whine and complain to the right people, and hey presto! there's a new law or clause or rule making life harder for the majority of normal, regular people. Like this dumbass bitching about the lack of non-smoking areas at that truck stop - all he had to do was say 'ok, well I don't like smoke so I'll go across the street to the truck stop that DOES have a non-smoking secti

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I am always astounded at how easily the smile of a child can ilicit a similar response in a parent who, before that child's smile, sad or miserable or just plain blue. It always, always works for me, and sometimes it doesn't even have to be my own child who smiles at me. I get a similar reaction when infants smile at me - that gummy grin they have is just a wonderful thing. I'm smiling just thinking about it. My kids know that they have that kind of power, and as yet

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My husband and I won't eat the the Cracker Barrel near us anymore. Like you, the only difference between the smoking/non-smoking sections is the seating. There isn't any wall or anything to stop the smoke drifting over. The last time we were there we asked for non-smoking - and we has to ask to change seats because we just couldn't stand the coulds of smoke that were billowing over us and our food. Nothing like someone else's smoke to put you off your food. I'm

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A couple of years ago, I made Christmas gifts for my family in England. They went over so well that I've decided to do the same thing again this year. For my mum: I've knitted her a cabled scarf using a vintage pattern. I've also made her a pair of earrings and a matching pendant using some gorgeous turquoise crackled-glass beads. The kids have made her Christmas angels to hang on her tree. For my brother: I hand knit a beanie in his favorite soccer team's co

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The Hospice conference I attended yesterday was held on Southern Illinois University's Edwardsville campus in the main conference hall. Driving around campus made me feel old; there were kids wandering around who didn't look too much older than my 14 year old - and in reality, they AREN'T that much older at a mere 18 - 20 years. All of the facilities in and around the conference hall were geared towards the younger generation: fast food places, Starbucks, TV's tuned to MTV

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I'm at Scott Air Force Base,Illinois; 17 miles east of the Mississippi river and the city of St Louis, Missouri. Scott was first used as a military camp in the early 1900' and currently is home to the US TransCom Headquarters and also the Air Mobility Command. Both those agencies are multi-service, meaning they involve contingencies from the Army, Air Force, Navy, Marines and Coast Guard. The St Louis Cardinals baseball team just won the World Series for the first time in....well, a looooong

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I saw the same thing in South Dakota in March of 2000. It had started to snow overnight, and when I got up that morning it was coming down hard with thunder and lightning to boot. I called the local news station's weatherman, and asked him if this was normal. He did a broadcast a few hours later and mentioned that whilst it was rare it wasn't unheard of - he called it a 'snunder storm'. We ended up with 4' of wet, heavy snow when it finally stopped snowing on

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...The most annoying person I know. Like when we're watching a movie or a show that neither of us has seen before and he asks me questions: Him: "why's he doing that?" Me: "Dunno" Him: "that doesn't make sense. Why's he doing that?" Me: "like I said, I dunno" Him: "but...." Me, interrupting: "I DO NOT KNOW. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I'VE SEEN THIS TOO. Perhaps if you quit asking me questions we'd both know what w

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one person in particular that I know has the same effect... Good. I'm glad that you can feel it too, it makes me feel slightly more sane. Not at all. I'm VERY glad that you too ca

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Sometimes during the course of my ordinary, everyday life I come across people who I think are, for want of a better word, angels. It's not their actions that make me think them such, nor is it their appearance or their voices. It's nothing that they've done (or not done) or said (or not said); it's not how they dress or style their hair or even the clothes that they wear. None of those things has any bearing on my thinking them to be celestial, spiritual beings. I

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Do you actually know how to spell properly, or is 'text speak' the only language you're proficient in now? Are you planning to use this kind of spelling for job applications and other important documents, and if you are, do you honestly think that you'll get hired? You do know that this blog is out there for the whole world to read, crappy spelling and all, right? And you're comfortable with the entire world thinking 'my god, that Louby girl has horrible spelling.&n

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Years of living in military housing have made me realize one thing: some people will find fault with ANY and EVERY thing you do, and they're usually the ones we get stuck living next to. We too have strict rules about music in our house, whether it be from a stereo or an instument: We never play after 8pm or before 10am, and we make it a point to find out if our neighbors are shift workers - because if they are, we'll change our playing schedule to allow them to get some rest d

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I found this over on Joe. My. God.'s blog Link and I have to say that I think it's sheer brilliance. It wasn't written by him, but there's a link at the bottom of this song so you can send your words of appreciation to it's composer. Without further ado, I give you 'Supertelevangelistic Sex-And-Drugs Psychosis', sung to the tune of (of course) 'Supercalafragelisticexpealidocious': SUPERTELEVANGELISTIC SEX-AND

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Great. I'll look it up as soon as I get the chance. Thank you! I think I need a good scrapin'. My mom had to have one around my age, and she said it was that D&C that finally brought on her menopause. I'm ready to get

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People who die from influenza are usually the old, the very young, and folks who have a weakened immune system due to AIDS or HIV, chemotherapy and other treatments for cancers and diseases. I agree that it's sad, but because it's a virus there isn't much anyone can do about it - except to treat the symptoms with things like IV fluids and breathing treatments for lung congestion.

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Oh honey, I'm so sorry. This is probably one of the hardest things you've ever had to deal with, isn't it? Your friend is going to have a rough time over the next few months, what with chemotherapy and doctor's visits and hair loss and all the rest of the joyful things that come with a cancer diagnosis and the fight against it. The best thing you can do for her is simply be her friend. That's all. Love her like you always have, and be there for her.

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The Air Force base that I live on started a Veteran's Day Vigilance walk/run yesterday afternoon. Basically, we've had someone running or walking and carrying the flag ever since 1600 yesterday. Yesterday when it started the weather looked like it was going to be on our side; it was pleasant and unseasonably warm at 65+ degrees. However, that didn't last. At 1800 it started to rain, then we got thunder and lightning followed by a 30 - 40 degree drop in temp

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One question, what's a wound measure? It's a little plastic ruler that nurses (mostly nursing home nurses) carry in their pockets to measure the size of bed and pressure sores. They have to document stuff like that to be able to judge whether healing has happened/is happening.

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