Ravenblack

Ravenblack

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Sometimes, not so much as disregarding the consequences, rather, they think they own and control the consequences. I can make my life go wherever I choose and I will do whatever I want to because I can. The sort of selfishness that doesn't get past the big ME. In their mind, if it doesn't affect them, they don't really care. Lot of people are like that.

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>> Funny how holidays are about eating. Enjoy your new year Thank you, Danny. Food is the best thing, gives people something to talk about when they run out of things to say too. A, >>very careful to order in the language and with the appropriate nods and gestures Your grandfather must have earned a lot of their respect. <img src="../images/smiles/smile.g

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I really would like to go down to Chinatown before chinese new year (CNY) and have a look around. But to go down this weekend would be suicide, with the holidays being a few days away. I heard from my friends who went last weekend that there was already a lot of pushing and shoving. I do hate crowds. But... I would really like to get some

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Great article. I tend to get a bit out of control when I am stressed, so yes, I have used that stress excuse. I agree that losing control or allowing oneself to lose control would contribute to more stress. It's not so much as I feel that I have the right to blow up just because I am stressed but because that is the reason I've lost my grip. I have a temper problem. I think tha

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>>it's got to be better than the job that I have right now. It usually is. Even if it isn't, going to a new place and getting more experience helps you to clarify further what you really want to do. Good luck!

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I don't have anything really insightful lately either. Sometimes I get a spark at work and then when I finally sit down to write, it dies.

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It's that time of the year again, with Chinese Lunar New Year (LNY) just round the corner (in a little more than a week actually). The time of the year when families get ready to come together again for a reunion dinner and that once-a-year visit to show respect to their elders. My father's side of the family is an empire of traditional aunts, uncles and

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Seems like lots of people are taking breaks lately. Just here to let you know I'm still reading you, Sally, although no comment to offer.

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I'm out of PC gaming - sick of the bugs and neverending patches, the constant need to upgrade. PC games are getting all samey, there's hardly anything new to be excited about these days. PC gaming has gotten to a level where gaming is being taken too seriously. And everything in PC gaming is just kinda tedious. Takes too much time to get into and well... too much time. I'm currently into console gaming and still play on the GBA when on the

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I'm out of PC gaming - sick of the bugs and neverending patches, the constant need to upgrade. PC games are getting all samey, there's hardly anything new to be excited about these days. PC gaming has gotten to a level where gaming is being taken too seriously. And everything in PC gaming is just kinda tedious. Takes too much time to get into and well... too much time. I'm currently into console gaming and still play on the GBA when on the

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"It's better not to get involved, it's better not to try. Oh that looks dangerous, I might die doing that." a guy say that to me during an outward bound teambuilding camp while we were going on some rope obsticals. Sometimes choosing security and safety over everything else is something that was taught to them since young. Kids who get overly rebuked an

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Great blog, scatter. A lot of times in life, we are inhibited or hesitated by fear of unknown or false monsters, take a bit to make a brave choice to go despite the fear and overcome it or be pleasantly surprise that there is nothing to fear at all.

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Something scary happened just now when I was trying to edit and add a comment to my previous post. Phew, luckily I could delete the mess it made. Anyway, as I was saying, calm isn't commonly used to describe me.

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