JillUser

JillUser

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Why does it seem like we are all so inclined to pick a side and and dig in, defend it and block out anything that comes from "the other side"? It is obviously the case in U.S. politics these days. You pick a party/candidate and only listen to points coming from their "side". Everyone denies they do it but most get caught doing exactly that. It isn't just politics though. If you aren't ready to declare your support of gay marriage then you're a homophobe.

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I have recently found it disturbing that on a discussion group for our public schools it never fails that people will openly voice concerns only to have a PC admin pop in to warn people to make sure they are using facts when discussing things on in the group. I always thought the path to uncovering facts was open discussion!

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Remember when Liberals were all about questioning authority, ant-censorship and free speech? Now if you question our government you are racist. Events in history are being erased (censored) in the name of political correctness (take the case of ESPN cutting out Curt Schillings game play from broadcast). The new wave Liberals need safe spaces to protect them from speech they don't like. I guess I'm old but people saying things has never scared me. Now the thou

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I knew it had been a long while since I had posted here but I didn't realize it has been about 4yrs! I have been living via cell phone during that time so popping on FB and Twitter has filled my social media time. I recently went back to work at our office building so I'm back on the computer! I keep up with some of my old JU buddies on FB. I don't know if anyone who is on here these days even knows me. I intend to start blogging again because I mis

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Those other times weren't racist....because it was a black (at least outwardly) man behind the finger. What I really don't get about this whole "cultural rules" thing is, Obama's father was from Africa and his mom and grandparents (who raised him) were white. He grew up in Hawaii so he wasn't exactly living in the 'hood growing up. He has lived a life with the privileges of being white AND the opportunities given to minorities. I don't think he's had to live by anyone

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A friend of mine recently posted a blog article on Facebook about Governor Jan Brewer pointing her finger in the President's face. My friend's status above said article was " It never entered my brain that this was anything other than a crazy woman disrespecting our president." but she wanted us to read this blog article to teach what it was "really" about. The article was a lesson in rules for "White Folks" when dealing with "Black People". The a

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BFD, I hear ya. Hindsight is seen through rose colored glasses and like anything else in life, whatever you have now, you long for something else. When you have babies, you long for the day when you can get some sleep. When your babies are grown and gone, you long for the days when you had nothing else going on except caring for those little ones. The saying that youth is wasted on the young comes to mind. When you're a kid you can't wait to grow up and "be able

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I read a blog recently written by a mom of young children who got irritated by everyone telling her to enjoy the time she has with her kids now because they grow so fast. I understood where she was coming from because when you're living the days of constant feedings, diaper changes, no sleep, etc. you don't want to hear "enjoy this time". You have plenty of moments when you just gaze at your babies in wonderment and gratitude that you have them but you have a lot mor

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See, weeks flew by already! Thanks for all the well wishes. We had a wonderful Christmas and 2012 has been good so far. Nicky, my oldest boy is in High School this year, just got his braces off and has all kinds of girl drama in his life. I can't imagine what the girl will be like! At least I have a few years to prepare :)

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The thing that annoyed me the most was when the doctor said "These things come with age". Argh! I wanted to strangle her. That's especially annoying when the doctor is clearly younger than you are....I hate it when that happens!

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Glad she decided not to bite you! I've learned a lot about dogs over the years too. A lot of dogs won't like you no matter what if you're a stranger and their master isn't home. That's probably what the farmer was thinking. Glad you made friends!

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Happy New Year to you too! I haven't written a book myself but I was present for the writing of my hubby's and it is on my bucket list. I know very well that it is far more difficult than you'd think. Good luck!

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Yeah, racism only goes one way I guess. Never understood it. I know there's some Sioux Indian in me from my dad's side but highly doubt there's any record of it....other than pictures. Couldn't possibly risk taking the job from all those hard working Res guys. I lived near a couple of Reservations here in MI and they were some of the worst slums outside of Detroit or Flint.v

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Thanks! Yeah, the household keeps me hopping. I try not to complain too much about the kids keeping me busy because I wouldn't wish this time away for anything. I LOVE having them all home and dread the day our oldest goes off on his own :( They are all growing and changing so fast! Congrats on the Editor in Chief! So exciting to see the kids becoming their own person. I just hope every day that I've done well by them and am giving them the to

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Hi There! I haven't been around JU in a really long time. Thought I'd stop by and see how things are going. Seems like the only time I'm on the computer anymore is for email or Facebook. I now have 3 kids in 3 different schools so that has kept life interesting....and busy. High School boy is all about girls and games. Middle School boy is playing basketball and gaming with his dad and big brother (Star Wars right now) and the little gi

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Dr. Guy, I am soooo glad you are talking about this subject! My best friend past away at 39yrs old from colon cancer. I wish fewer people felt the way KFC feels about them. I've been wide awake for far worse procedures (don't care to talk about) and can save you from not only an early death but a long road of heart break. Most people don't know the value of prevention until it's too late. Best wishes and I hope prepping for the tests is the worst thing y

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[quote who="lulapilgrim" reply="12" id="2879569"] Liberals cherish freedom to do whatever they want. [/quote] And they see it necessary to legally force others to do whatever they want too. I also take issue with the claim that Rush "hates" liberals. I've never heard him be hateful. Hateful is saying people should die horribly. I've heard that a lot of places....but not from Rush. He doesn't claim t

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Actually CharlesCS, most prices go up in response to taxes not the other way around. Businesses don't pay taxes, they pass the expense along to the consumer. I agree with everything else though.

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[quote]The big irony (actually a case of sarcasm) is that Obama hosted a Seder (a Jewish ritual) in the White House. A seder traditionally ends with the words "Next Year in Jerusalem", as part of a prayer for every Jew to return to the holy city. I do wonder if he managed to say those words without laughing.[/quote] I thought the same thing!

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