imajinit

imajinit

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I'm with ya sistah... We've talked about tact vs. harsh truth before... Dharma and I have both written articles about these topics. I get tired of sugar coating the truth too. This is actually becoming a serious source of tension between the lil lady & I because she wants the 'nice' version of everything as opposed to brutal honesty. (I can talk about this kind of stuff on other people's blogs because I don't have to worry about her seeing it... shhh... hehehe) <

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you're only ever pleasantly surprised but if you're truly a cynic, do you ever allow anything to be pleasant or surprising? John Stuart Mill had some pretty interesting things to say about cynicism, but I don't have the book with me right now... If I remember, I'll post it on here tmrw

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I understand where you're coming from on this... and I agree. There was a time when I wanted to 'win' arguments too, but I've since learned that Rosie Perez was right in the movie "White Men Can't Jump" "Sometimes when you win, you actually lose" "Sometimes when you lose, you actually win" "and sometimes when you win or lose, you actually tie"

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hmm... this is the first time that I've come across your blog, but it looks like you and I have a bit in common. I'm a skydiver, so I've gotten to watch parachutes being packed many times... are you jealous? hehehe I'm also a psych major in college... are you still in High School, or are you in college now? I've had to write some strangely similar essays to the ones you're writing... I might even be able to give you some tips on where to start.

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cause if i could be anyone, i'd be emily strange Yes, I'd be Emily as well.......I've long had a fascination with all things Emily-esque HA! My girlfriend's name is Emily... does this mean that I can tell everyone that I'm dating a superhero?

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no, the two statements are not related. it wouldn't happen again because I don't want to break her heart again... she was gracious enough to forgive me once, there's no way she would forgive me again...

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did you learn your lesson ? you know the old saying... some fools never learn. I do know that I'll never put myself in that situation again... I wrote a blog about the whole situation but I had to erase it cause it was too personal. Jepel actually nomin

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but like i said, usually only if you err, expose yourself to them basically what we're talking about is flirting with temptation... believe me when I say that I know all about it. I put myself in a 'situation' back in December where I was tempted, and I lost the battle. Now I'm going to be paying for it for the rest

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the "4 hour long involuntary muscle spasms" people claim to experience whilst intoxicated which result in them having sex with someone else don't apply to me. i rarely drink anything at all, and if i do, i make sure i'm somewhere safe. were i to deliberately get drunk whilst alone with a single friend of the opposite sex and shag them however, i do agree that it

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gotta be careful with that word "troll" around here... it's a bad word... good stuff though!

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can they ? ... ... if you honestly don’t want them to, do they just happen anyway ? no. they don’t. as you and i know. but try telling her that. not even when alcohol is involved?

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some of my fondest memories are from hanging out down at the lake, with a couple friends and their guitars, just singing songs, fishing, and drinking beer. (i passed on the weed when it came around) I can't sing to save my life, but I know all the words to the songs, so I'm good to have around to keep the song going...

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i know where you're coming from, and I agree with you to a certain extent. But not completely. I used to have a deep burning desire to be the best at whatever I was doing. Whether it was getting the best grade, being the best basketball player, or being the best writer. I know what you're saying about trying to maintain your position once you get there and all that... that seems to be something that people in all walks of life face. Something keeps

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