God has a purpose behind every problem. He uses circumstances to develop our character. In fact, he depends more on circumstances to make us like Jesus than he depends on our reading the Bible. The reason is obvious: you face circumstances twenty-four hours a day. No on is immune to pain or insulated from suffering, and no one gets to skate through life probl
Understanding human needs is half the job of meeting them. As the years go by, it's easy to grow lazy in verbal communication, thinking that your mate automatically knows how you feel. It is an unfortunate characteristic of many long-term relationships. Couples engaged in great marriages have learned to overcome it. Regardless of how good at mind rea
The point I am arriving to is that ladies can continue to qualify men to see if they are acceptable, whatever, if that's what they have to do, then so be it - I just hope they realise they really cant learn anything major about a guy from their stupid little tests. I feel empowered though, I feel great, because now, its actually
"PoetMom and SheryeHanson: My aunts. Slightly older, a little wiser...women who's advice I feel I can trust because they've 'been there, done that'." Awwwww...thanks, Dharma....you put me in good company, AND you only called me "slightly" older.....a good day all around! And it's good to hear I can be helpful, too!!
"True love is really for better or worse. If your mate is in an accident and needs 24 hour care and has no legs or arms, you'll be there for him or her. This is the most selfless love in the three stages. It means not backing down when you're ready to kill them. Even when doubting the sacrafice you made, you know you couldn't be without them. This means loving them in the most intimate way -- Being fully known and knowing someone fully: spiritually, em
I keep a study notebook, for Bible study and Bible related stuff, so thoughts on this book have been going in there.
Spiritual truth is the process of replacing lies with truth. The Spirit of God uses the Word of God to make us like the Son of God. To become like Jesus, we must fill our lives with His Word. God's Word generates life, creates faith, produces change, frightens the Devil, causes miracles, heals hurts, builds character, transforms circumstances, imparts joy, ov
Heaven is full of answers to prayers which no one ever bothered to ask. How often do you think about your spouse in the course of a day? Each time your thoughts turn to your mate, institute a new habit pause long enough to breathe a prayer on their behalf. Do you know of specific problems or issues your spouse is facing? Take a moment to petition God
Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow-ripening fruit. Your marriage is your most important relationship, but strong relationships outside your marriage are important as well. Did you know that they can help protect you from colds and the flu? When your body is stressed, hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol are increased, which can
God's goal is for you to mature and develop the characteristics of Jesus Christ. Spiritual growth takes an intentional commitment. You must want to grow, decide to grow, make an effort to grow and persist in growing. Your commitments can develop you or can destroy you, but either way, they will define you. G
"There is a homosexual agenda. And that agenda advances because as a nation, and as a society, we have not wanted to retain any sort of moral law such as the Ten Commandments." This conspiracy theory of yours ranks right up there with the theory that the Jews are trying to take over the world.....ridiculous!!!!
A massage not only feels good, it's good for you. The motions used in massage trigger a natural relaxation response in your body, which slows down the nervous system. It also increases circulation, which helps relieve pain associated with excess tension. It reduces stress hormones, and increases seratonin, which provides feelings of well being and enhances mental skil
Purpose Number Three: You Were Created To Become Like Christ We are spiritual beings--our spirits are immortal and will outlast our earthly bodies; we are intellectual --we can think, reason, and solve problems; we are relational --we can give and receive real love; and we have a moral consciousness --we can discern right from wrong,
"You know, I'm no language purist. I use as much slang and incorrect grammar as anyone else. I just believe in calling things as they are... ..and to me, Ebonics is slang." Wild applause...standing ovation....:) I'm not a language purist either, but I at least expect to be able to understand what people are saying, and have them understand me. I find myself correcting my 14 yr old daughter a LOT these days...to me, that sort of langu
Many conservative church groups around the world do recognize the plain and obvious biblical teaching on homosexuality. Let us hope that individuals and churches turn to the Bible for instruction and that they turn to the teachings of Jesus Christ! When you criticize what another believer is doing in fa
It is your job to protect the unity of your church. Unity is the soul of fellowship. Destroy it, and you rip the heart out of Christ's Body. It is the essence, the core, of how God intended for us to experience life together in His church. If you are a part of God's family, it is your responsibility to protect the unity where you fellowship. FOCUS ON
A lunch date with a coworker of the opposite sex may be strictly business. The late-night work session that includes the two of you may be legitimate. Nevertheless, if your actions cause others to raise a suspicious eyebrow, beware. Steer clear of any circumstance that might create even a twinge of jealousy in your mate. We live in a time when these precautio
Bed is a bundle of paradoxes: we go to it with reluctance, yet we quit it with regret. Can you recall those sweet days of childhood when your parents lovingly tucked the covers under your chin and kissed you good night? Although you're all grown up now, those treasured, end-of-the-day warm fuzzies need not end. Institute a nightly ritual with your mate. <
Relationships are always worth restoring. God wants us to value relationships and make the effort to maintain them instead of discarding them whenever there is a rift, a hurt or a conflict. Since Christ wants His family to be known for our love for each other, broken fellowship is a disgraceful testimony to unbelievers. If you want God's blessing on
"I'm feeling pretty damn good about myself today. I set out to do something, and I accomplished my goal. It's an awesome freakin' feeling. I just wanted to share it." WTG, Dharma...keep up the good work!!!
Just got this in email from a friend, and had to share it with everyone: Who You Are ============ I find myself on the downhill slide of yet another trial in my life where confusion seemed to be the only thing I was sure of. Who, what, why, when, how, and how long were the questions I didn't have answers for. Last night,
"Let's start calling a spade a spade and find out where people really stand. You may be surprised to see who stands beside you." I agree....it's amazing how many times you THINK you know someone and how they feel or what they believe, but when push comes to shove, you discover who your REAL friends and allies are.
"Do you know how pedophiles think? Provocative dress sets them off. Big time. " As the mother of a child who was abused from the ages of three to six, let me just say that is a huge load of BS! My daughter was not dressed provocatively at those ages....so it was not provocative dress that set off her molester, nor is that what sets off MOST child molesters/abusers/pedophiles....they are SICK, they have an unnatural attraction to young childre
"However, I really am getting tired of seeing the blogs that people make pointing out their views on other people then saying that they "don't mean to offend anyone"." I'll second that one! If you have a problem with someone, handle it between the two of you, and don't drag the rest of the world into your disagreements or whatever. It seems so grade school to me! :(
Very well said, Jill...and, like Dharma, I thought the "house" analogy was a good one. Something for all of us to think about as we begin another week, :)
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